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Thanksgiving Words: Gravy, Cold Turkey, and Friendsgiving

Explore U.S. holiday language and food metaphors, while separating these meanings from phrases already covered elsewhere.

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“Friendsgiving” is an informal blend of “friends” and “Thanksgiving” for a holiday meal with friends. “Cold turkey” means stopping a habit or substance suddenly; it is not advice about medication or treatment. Figuratively, “gravy” can mean an extra benefit beyond what was expected, while “a turkey” can describe a failure. The lesson leaves out “talk turkey,” “hot potato,” and “I’m stuffed,” which already appear in earlier pages.

Cultural note: Thanksgiving is a U.S. holiday, and not everyone celebrates it or gathers with family. “Cold turkey” is a language expression, not medical guidance; stopping medication or a substance can have health risks and should be discussed with a qualified professional. Calling a person “a turkey” is insulting, so the lesson uses the word for a failed performance or product only. “Friendsgiving” is informal, and practices vary.

Keep exploringHoliday food words can name a social gathering, an unexpected extra, a sudden stop, or a flop.

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A gathering with friends

Recognize an informal name for a friends-centered holiday meal.

Friendsgiving

Meaning

An informal gathering or meal with friends around the U.S. Thanksgiving holiday.

Tone & use

A blend of “friends” and “Thanksgiving.” It is informal; people use it for different gatherings, and not everyone observes the holiday.

Example

“A few classmates who could not travel home organized a Friendsgiving potluck.”

PositiveInformal / cultural term

Something extra

Understand a food word used for a bonus beyond the expected amount.

gravy

Meaning

An extra benefit or money beyond what was expected.

Tone & use

Informal and often used for a bonus. Context distinguishes the figurative sense from the food.

Example

“The project met its main goal, and the small award for early completion was gravy.”

PositiveInformal / figurative

Sudden change or failure

Distinguish stopping suddenly from describing something as a flop.

cold turkey

Meaning

Stop a habit or substance suddenly rather than reducing it gradually.

Tone & use

Informal. This expression does not indicate which approach is safe or appropriate; medical support may be important.

Example

“He stopped checking work messages on weekends all at once—he joked that he had quit the habit cold turkey.”

NeutralInformal / idiomatic

a turkey

Meaning

An informal term for a failure, especially a performance, film, or product that does not succeed.

Tone & use

Can sound dismissive or insulting, especially when used about a person. Prefer specific feedback in work or school settings.

Example

“The first version of the app was a turkey, so the team used customer feedback to redesign it.”

NegativeInformal

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A group of friends organizes a holiday meal together in the U.S. What informal term may describe it?