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Processed with VS1Describe people or things that do not work well together without turning differences into stereotypes.
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View original article & transcript“Like oil and water” describes people, objects, or ideas that do not mix or work well together. The episode connects the physical image of oil and water separating with compatibility and getting along.
Cultural note: The idiom can oversimplify conflict by suggesting that people are naturally incompatible. Use it for a specific situation, not as a permanent judgment about groups or identities; differences do not rule out cooperation.
Keep exploringTwo people can disagree in one setting and collaborate in another. Practise describing what does not fit and what common ground might still exist.
Phrase guide · 5 expressions
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Describe people or things that do not work well together.
Meaning
Unable to mix or work comfortably together.
Tone & use
Can describe people, ideas, or substances. Avoid treating a temporary disagreement as a permanent incompatibility.
Example
“Their planning styles were like oil and water, but they agreed on the project’s main goal.”
Meaning
Not able to exist, work, or fit well together.
Tone & use
More formal and often more precise than the idiom.
Example
“The software versions were incompatible, so the files would not open correctly.”
Talk about a relationship where interaction is difficult.
Meaning
Disagree with someone about an issue or decision.
Tone & use
Often about opinions; people who disagree may still work together.
Example
“The neighbors did not see eye to eye about the fence, but they found a practical compromise.”
Meaning
Have a friendly or workable relationship with someone.
Tone & use
Can describe personal relationships or how people cooperate.
Example
“The new teammates got along well after they clarified their roles.”
Look for shared goals even when styles differ.
Meaning
Shared interests, beliefs, or goals that can help people agree or cooperate.
Tone & use
Common in discussions and negotiations; it does not require full agreement.
Example
“They found common ground in wanting the park to stay open to everyone.”
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