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First Dibs: Claiming a Choice Fairly

Learn how to talk about getting the first chance to choose something—and when claiming it may feel unfair.

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“First dibs” means the first chance to take or choose something. The episode also distinguishes having permission to choose first from simply calling dibs.

Cultural note: Calling dibs can sound playful among friends, but it does not create a real right to someone else’s property. Check that others agree before treating a claim as settled.

Keep exploringWanting the first choice is common; agreeing on who gets it is what keeps things fair.

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A chance to choose first

Use first dibs when someone has priority.

have first dibs on something

Meaning

Have the first chance to get or choose something.

Tone & use

Use “on” before the thing. It often describes an agreed priority, such as an early chance to buy tickets.

Example

“Returning volunteers have first dibs on the workshop places.”

NeutralInformal

get first dibs

Meaning

Be given the first opportunity to choose or take something.

Tone & use

Often used when a person is offered priority before the item is made available to others.

Example

“The neighbor got first dibs on the spare desk before it went online.”

NeutralInformal

give someone first dibs

Meaning

Let someone choose before other people.

Tone & use

This makes clear that the priority is being offered by someone with authority to offer it.

Example

“I gave my sister first dibs on the extra concert ticket.”

PositiveInformal

Making a claim

Know the difference between being offered priority and announcing it yourself.

claim something

Meaning

Say that something belongs to you or that you have a right to it.

Tone & use

More formal and stronger than “call dibs”; use only when there is a reasonable basis for the claim.

Example

“He claimed the lost umbrella after identifying his initials on the handle.”

NeutralNeutral

Sharing fairly

Use the phrase without ignoring other people’s needs or rights.

call dibs

Meaning

Announce that you want to claim or choose something first.

Tone & use

Very casual and playful. It may be seen as selfish if the item is valuable or other people have an equal claim.

Example

“Maya called dibs on the window seat, so the others chose their places next.”

NeutralVery informal

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The organizer lets you choose a seat before everyone else. What do you have?