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Admitting You Were Wrong: Eat Crow, or Swallow Your Pride?

Compare vivid expressions for admitting a mistake, retracting a claim, and choosing to set ego aside.

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To “eat crow” is to admit publicly that you were wrong, often after speaking confidently. “Eat your words” means acknowledge that a claim you made was mistaken; “eat humble pie” highlights a humbling admission. “Swallow your pride” focuses on setting aside ego so you can apologize or repair a relationship. “Eat your hat” is a jokingly emphatic prediction that you are certain you will be right. The source offers a possible link between “eat crow” and a Kipling story; that origin is not treated as proven.

Cultural note: These expressions can make an apology sound humorous, but a joke should not replace taking responsibility for real harm. “Eat crow” and “humble pie” can imply embarrassment; “swallow your pride” is useful when the main obstacle is ego. The source’s historical explanation for “eat crow” is a proposed account rather than a settled etymology.

Keep exploringA mistake, a boast, and an apology can all lead to “eating” something in English—but each phrase points to a different part of the experience.

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Correcting a confident claim

Use expressions for acknowledging that you were wrong.

eat crow

Meaning

Admit you were wrong, often after making a confident public claim.

Tone & use

Informal and often humorous or embarrassing. It may be too light for a serious apology.

Example

“After insisting the route was open, I had to eat crow when we reached the road-closure sign.”

NegativeInformal / idiomatic

eat your words

Meaning

Admit that something you said was wrong.

Tone & use

Informal and vivid; it often follows a confident prediction or criticism that proved mistaken.

Example

“I said the seedlings would not survive the cold, but their first leaves appeared and I ate my words.”

NegativeInformal / idiomatic

Setting ego aside

Distinguish a humbling admission from a practical effort to repair harm.

eat humble pie

Meaning

Accept that you were wrong and endure the embarrassment of admitting it.

Tone & use

Informal and somewhat old-fashioned. It can sound teasing or judgmental when said about someone else.

Example

“The reviewer ate humble pie after the revised data supported the researchers’ conclusion.”

NegativeInformal / idiomatic

swallow your pride

Meaning

Set aside embarrassment or ego so you can ask for help, apologize, or accept a difficult truth.

Tone & use

Often describes a choice to do something uncomfortable. It does not mean accepting mistreatment or abandoning a valid boundary.

Example

“He swallowed his pride and asked a colleague to show him how to use the new system.”

NeutralNeutral / idiomatic

A jokingly certain prediction

Recognize an exaggerated promise to be proven wrong.

eat your hat

Meaning

Make a humorous, exaggerated claim that you are certain something will happen or that you are right.

Tone & use

Very informal and not meant literally. Avoid it when accuracy or safety matters.

Example

“If that little garden produces a pumpkin this year, I’ll eat my hat—I only planted the seeds last week.”

NeutralInformal / humorous

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Someone confidently predicts a project will finish on Monday, but it finishes Friday. They admit their prediction was wrong. What could they say?