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In this live lesson, Vanessa combines a discussion of speaking confidence with a dated promotion for the tenth anniversary of her Fearless Fluency Club. She invites viewers to talk about where they lived ten years ago and what makes speaking English difficult. Learners mention nervousness, fast listening, limited vocabulary, and the challenge of forming grammatical sentences in real time. Vanessa connects these difficulties to a lack of regular speaking practice and uses the chat to make the lesson interactive.

The teaching portion presents three ideas. First, learners who already understand classroom basics can move beyond scripted dialogues and listen to real conversations. Vanessa recalls recording an unscripted conversation with her neighbor and describes how students responded to hearing people chat naturally. Second, speaking improves through speaking: learners need opportunities to produce language, just as they practise reading by reading and writing by writing. She describes a supportive setting where learners can practise with other English learners. Third, confidence can grow through community rather than isolation. Stories from students illustrate practising for an interview and giving a presentation at work. These are individual examples, not guaranteed outcomes for every learner.

Useful language includes “putting it together” for forming words into a sentence, “back and forth” for an exchange between speakers, “go out of your way” for making a special effort, and “outside your comfort zone” for trying something unfamiliar. Vanessa also distinguishes confidence from perfection: learners may still make mistakes while communicating clearly. Her advice is to practise regularly, use real conversation, and connect with people who share the goal.

The second half describes club lessons, quizzes, weekly speaking sessions, a study plan, and membership terms. This recording announced a $5 first month, a $35 monthly price afterward, a 30-day refund policy, and a giveaway scheduled for September 5, 2026. That date has passed, so the prices and contest details are historical information from the video, not a current offer. The lesson remains useful for its speaking strategies and language examples; check the provider’s current official information before making any purchase.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:00

Welcoming learners and introducing the live English lesson

Hello hello Welcome to this live English lesson here on the Speak English with Vanessa YouTube channel Thank you so much for to be able to focus on English immerse yourself in English and also learn about a very cool opportunity where you could win 1 300 worth of English lessons And today I'm going to explain how you can win that Also I'm going to be helping you learn how you can improve your English speaking skills so that you can speak fluently You can go out into the world and have conversations confidently and be able to express yourself That's the goal So thank you so much for joining me I see some wonderful people who are uh who are already here Welcome Leslie Hello Hello

Try it: Choose one speaking challenge from the lesson. Describe it, name one real person or group you could practise with, and explain how you could use English together. Reuse two phrases from the lesson without treating the expired giveaway as a current offer.

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taking time out of your busy or relaxing week

Welcoming learners and introducing the live English lesson · expression

Set aside part of your week for a particular activity.

Tone and use: Warm and conversational. Use it when thanking someone for making time to join or help.

May not fit: It can sound overly formal for a quick, everyday interaction.

Example“Thanks for taking time out of your busy week to meet with me.”

10 years ago

Asking learners where they lived ten years ago · expression

At a point ten years before the present.

Tone and use: Neutral time expression. Use it to ask or answer about a past period.

May not fit: For a different reference date, specify the year or event clearly.

Example“Ten years ago, I lived in a smaller city.”

the same place I lived when I was 10 years old

Modelling a sentence about living in the same place · expression

A sentence pattern comparing a current place with the place where someone lived at age ten.

Tone and use: Neutral, conversational comparison. Use it to describe whether your current home is the same as your childhood home.

May not fit: Change the age or place to fit your own situation; the pattern may need “that” for extra clarity.

Example“This is the same place I lived when I was ten years old.”

get serious about

Inviting learners to name their hardest speaking challenge · expression

Begin treating a topic or goal as important and giving it focused attention.

Tone and use: Direct and conversational. Use it when moving from casual discussion to focused effort.

May not fit: It can sound forceful, so consider a softer phrase when encouraging someone.

Example“I got serious about practising English before my interview.”

panic and freeze

Responding to nervousness and listening difficulty · expression

Become very anxious and temporarily unable to respond or act.

Tone and use: Common conversational description. Use it for a reaction to stress or an unexpected demand.

May not fit: It describes an experience; avoid using it to label someone dismissively.

Example“I sometimes panic and freeze when someone asks me a question quickly.”

putting it together

Discussing limited vocabulary and sentence formation · expression

Combining separate words or ideas into a complete expression.

Tone and use: Common and practical. Use it when explaining the challenge of forming a sentence in real time.

May not fit: The pronoun “it” should refer to something clear from context.

Example“I know the vocabulary, but putting it together takes me a moment.”

have someone to speak with

Explaining the need for regular speaking practice · expression

Have a person available for conversation or speaking practice.

Tone and use: Neutral and useful. Use it to talk about access to a conversation partner.

May not fit: Use “speak to” or “speak with” according to the context and your preferred variety.

Example“I have someone to speak with during my lunch break.”

sit down with

Telling how a real conversation with a neighbor began · expression

Meet or spend time with someone, often to talk in a focused way.

Tone and use: Natural conversational phrasal verb. Use it for arranging a discussion or interview.

May not fit: It does not necessarily mean a formal meeting.

Example“I sat down with my neighbor to talk about music.”

back and forth

Describing learners’ response to unscripted conversation · expression

In alternating turns between people or sides.

Tone and use: Common and informal. Use it for an exchange of comments, messages, or movement.

May not fit: For a formal report, “exchanged messages” may be more precise.

Example“We went back and forth about which day worked best.”

all over the world

Celebrating a decade of learners practising together · expression

In many different countries and places around the world.

Tone and use: Common and emphatic. Use it to describe a group or activity spread across countries.

May not fit: It is a broad expression; avoid implying literally every place if that matters.

Example“The online class brought together learners from all over the world.”

brings us together

Celebrating a decade of learners practising together · expression

Creates a connection among people who might otherwise be apart.

Tone and use: Warm and positive. Use it for a shared activity, interest, or experience that connects a group.

May not fit: It describes a connection, not necessarily close friendship.

Example“Our weekly book discussion brings us together.”

how would your life change

Asking how confident English could change a learner’s life · expression

A question asking someone to imagine the effect of a possible change.

Tone and use: Open-ended and reflective. Use it to invite someone to describe a hoped-for result.

May not fit: It asks about a hypothetical; do not assume the answer for someone.

Example“How would your life change if you could travel more easily?”

underestimate the power of

Asking how confident English could change a learner’s life · expression

Fail to recognize how strong or important something can be.

Tone and use: Emphatic but common. Use it to introduce an influence people may overlook.

May not fit: Avoid overstating evidence when discussing measurable results.

Example“We sometimes underestimate the power of a short daily practice.”

spoke English confidently

Connecting confidence with communication and opportunity · expression

Communicated in English with assurance, even if the speech was not perfect.

Tone and use: Encouraging and neutral. Use it for describing someone who communicated with greater assurance.

May not fit: Confidence does not mean certainty or freedom from mistakes.

Example“She spoke English confidently during the team meeting.”

make mistakes

Explaining that confidence does not require perfect English · expression

Do something incorrectly or produce an error.

Tone and use: Common and neutral. Use it to acknowledge normal errors while learning or working.

May not fit: For a specific serious error, name what happened rather than minimizing it.

Example“You can make mistakes and still explain your idea clearly.”

move beyond

Sharing a learner’s progress using real English at work · expression

Progress past a first stage, limit, or earlier approach.

Tone and use: Neutral and common. Use it when moving from basics to more advanced or realistic practice.

May not fit: Be clear about what stage or limitation is being left behind.

Example“After learning the basics, we moved beyond scripted dialogues.”

You learn to speak by speaking

Secret two: speaking improves through speaking practice · expression

Speaking skill develops through actual speaking practice.

Tone and use: Direct teaching principle. Use it to emphasize practice that matches the skill being learned.

May not fit: Practice should be appropriate to the learner’s level and situation.

Example“You learn to speak by speaking with a partner regularly.”

a safe place

Describing the value of a supportive practice environment · expression

An environment where people feel comfortable practising without harsh judgment.

Tone and use: Supportive and reassuring. Use it for a setting where learners can try, make mistakes, and improve.

May not fit: Safety should be supported by respectful behavior, not only promised.

Example“The conversation group is a safe place to practise asking questions.”

went out of his way

Reading a learner’s success after practising for an interview · expression

Made a special effort to help, beyond what was strictly required.

Tone and use: Positive conversational idiom. Use it to appreciate someone’s extra effort.

May not fit: It can imply a substantial effort, so reserve it for more than routine help.

Example“My colleague went out of his way to help me prepare for the interview.”

stay motivated

Explaining how peers on a shared journey support motivation · expression

Keep feeling willing and committed to continue working toward a goal.

Tone and use: Common and practical. Use it when discussing habits or support that help sustain effort.

May not fit: Motivation can vary; avoid suggesting that difficulty means someone is not trying.

Example“A weekly study group helps me stay motivated.”

more and more confident

Sharing a learner’s business-presentation achievement · expression

Increasingly sure of one’s ability over time.

Tone and use: Common gradual-change pattern. Use it to describe confidence that grows with experience.

May not fit: It describes a trend, not a guaranteed outcome.

Example“After several presentations, she felt more and more confident.”

on the right path

Connecting regular practice with progress and introducing the club · expression

Following a course of action that seems suitable for reaching a goal.

Tone and use: Encouraging and common. Use it to reassure someone that their approach is appropriate.

May not fit: The phrase is subjective; explain the goal or evidence when precision matters.

Example“Practising a little every day can put you on the right path.”

try this out

Encouraging learners to try the program with low commitment · expression

Test or experience something to see whether it suits you.

Tone and use: Informal and common. Use it before deciding whether to continue with a class, tool, or activity.

May not fit: Clarify any price or commitment before agreeing to a paid trial.

Example“I tried out the conversation group before joining.”

eligible to win

Describing eligibility and the scheduled live drawing · expression

Meeting the stated conditions to be considered for a prize.

Tone and use: Neutral, often used for contests. Use it when explaining who may enter or receive a prize.

May not fit: Always check the current rules and deadline; eligibility alone does not guarantee a win.

Example“Members who meet the rules are eligible to win.”

no matter where you live

Answering how the remote membership works · expression

Regardless of the place where you live.

Tone and use: Common and inclusive. Use it to say that a condition applies in any location.

May not fit: Access may still depend on local availability or rules.

Example“You can join the online discussion no matter where you live.”

absolute beginner

Distinguishing absolute beginners from higher beginners · expression

A learner who is starting with little or no prior ability in a subject.

Tone and use: Common educational phrase. Use it to distinguish a true beginner from someone with basic comprehension.

May not fit: It is a practical description, not a formal universal level label.

Example“The first class is designed for absolute beginners.”

over your head

Explaining the needs of learners who understand but struggle to speak · expression

Too difficult to understand or manage at the current level.

Tone and use: Informal idiom. Use it when material exceeds someone’s present understanding.

May not fit: It can sound self-critical; it does not mean someone is incapable of learning it.

Example“The technical lecture went over my head, so I reviewed the basics first.”

push yourself outside your comfort zone

Explaining the needs of learners who understand but struggle to speak · expression

Try something unfamiliar or challenging to make progress.

Tone and use: Encouraging, informal. Use it for a manageable challenge that stretches current habits.

May not fit: A challenge should remain safe and voluntary, not pressured.

Example“I pushed myself outside my comfort zone by joining the discussion.”

shadow with my voice

Describing shadowing and pronunciation practice · expression

Repeat a speaker’s words closely while listening to practise rhythm and pronunciation.

Tone and use: Language-learning instruction. Use it for a listen-and-repeat technique with a spoken model.

May not fit: Keep a comfortable pace and do not strain your voice.

Example“I shadowed with the teacher’s voice for five minutes.”

my money back

Describing shadowing and pronunciation practice · expression

A refund of money already paid.

Tone and use: Everyday consumer phrase. Use it when asking about a refund under a stated policy.

May not fit: Check the actual terms and time limits before relying on a refund.

Example“I contacted the store to ask how I could get my money back.”

bridge that gap

Answering a question about progress from B1 toward B2 · expression

Reduce a difference between two skills, situations, or levels.

Tone and use: Common metaphor. Use it when describing how practice connects a current ability to a goal.

May not fit: Name the two sides of the gap so the meaning is clear.

Example“Listening practice helped bridge the gap between class and conversation.”

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What it means · “putting it together”

A learner knows individual words but struggles with “putting them together.” What is difficult?