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Who Do You "Get Along With"?

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Vanessa teaches “get along with” as a way to talk about people who enjoy spending time together, have things in common, or have a friendly relationship. The expression works in statements, negative sentences, and questions. In a positive statement, a speaker can say, “I get along with my sister” or “I get along with my coworkers.” The person or people are introduced after with.

To describe a difficult relationship, use do not or don’t before get: “I don’t get along with my boss.” The expression can suggest tension or stress, but it does not explain the reason by itself. Speakers can add a brief explanation if they want to give more context.

Vanessa also shows two question patterns. “Who do you get along with?” asks about the other person or people in someone’s life. “Do you get along?” asks whether two people have a good relationship, when the people are already clear from context. With a group, speakers may say “Do you guys get along?” or “Do you all get along?”; “Do you both get along?” refers to two people. The subject and situation determine which question is appropriate.

The lesson encourages learners not only to understand the phrase but to use it in speech. A learner can name a family member, friend, or coworker they have a good relationship with, or describe a relationship that is difficult. They can also practise asking someone else about a group relationship. The phrase is conversational and usually neutral, though saying “I don’t get along with…” can sound personal or critical. The video closes by asking viewers to post an example and mentions a free ebook. The practical takeaway is to remember the preposition with and choose the correct question structure for whether you are asking who, or whether two or more people have a good relationship.

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Introducing get along with and its meaning

Hi, I’m Vanessa from Speak English with Vanessa. Who do you ? Let’s talk about it. Today’s expression is get along with. English has many expressions with get, and this is one of them. It means: Who is your friend? Who do you with? Who do you enjoy spending time with? Let’s look at the positive, negative, and question forms.

Try it: Name someone you get along with and one thing you have in common.

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get along with

Introducing get along with and its meaning · phrasal verb

Have a friendly or comfortable relationship with someone.

Tone and use: Conversational and neutral. Use it to describe a good relationship; keep with before the person.

May not fit: Do not confuse it with physically walking alongside someone; context determines the meaning.

Example“I get along with most of my neighbors.”

have a lot in common

Introducing get along with and its meaning · expression

Share many interests, experiences, or qualities with another person.

Tone and use: Neutral and friendly. Use it when explaining why people connect or enjoy each other's company.

Example“My cousin and I have a lot in common.”

I get along with my coworkers

Using get along with in positive and negative statements · expression

I have a comfortable or friendly relationship with the people I work with.

Tone and use: Neutral and positive. Use get along with + person or group to describe a relationship.

Example“I get along with the new members of my team.”

I don’t get along with him

Using get along with in positive and negative statements · expression

I do not have an easy or friendly relationship with him.

Tone and use: Direct and personal; it can sound critical. Use it when describing tension or difficulty with someone.

Example“I don’t get along with my neighbor, so we keep our conversations brief.”

Who do you get along with?

Choosing between who and do you questions · expression

A question asking which people someone has a friendly relationship with.

Tone and use: Friendly and conversational. Use it when asking a person to name friends, relatives, or coworkers they relate well to.

Example“Who do you get along with best on your team?”

Do you both get along?

Choosing between who and do you questions · expression

A question asking whether two people have a comfortable relationship.

Tone and use: Neutral and direct. Use both when the question refers specifically to two people.

Example“You and your roommate seem happy—do you both get along?”

Do you guys get along?

Choosing between who and do you questions · expression

A casual question asking whether people in a group have a comfortable relationship.

Tone and use: Informal and conversational. Use it when asking about a group relationship in casual conversation.

Example“You and your friends work well together. Do you guys get along?”

exercise your speaking muscles

Practising the question and inviting a personal answer · expression

Practise speaking so that the skill becomes more comfortable, like exercising a muscle.

Tone and use: Motivational and metaphorical. Use it informally to encourage regular speaking practice.

Example“Join the conversation to exercise your speaking muscles.”

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What it means · “get along with”

If you get along with someone, what is usually true?