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What Drives You Crazy?

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Vanessa tells a story about trying to film several lessons while her Siamese cat repeatedly meows during recording. She explains that her cat is vocal and tends to meow loudly, including in the middle of a video. Each time Vanessa has recorded about a minute, the cat starts meowing and she has to stop and begin again. This frustrating interruption inspires the expression “drive me crazy.”

In this lesson, “drive someone crazy” means annoy or frustrate them a lot. It is an informal expression and is often used in a light or humorous way. Vanessa notes that the problem does not have to be serious: the speaker can say that a repeated noise, delay, or small inconvenience drives them crazy without suggesting actual mental illness. The subject determines the verb form: “That noise drives me crazy,” “The cat drove me crazy,” and “My neighbors are driving me crazy.”

Vanessa also uses a cause-and-effect pattern: something drives a person crazy. In her story, the cat’s meowing is the source of irritation, and the repeated interruption makes the frustration stronger. A speaker can use “I felt like I was going crazy” as an additional exaggeration, but it is not the same grammatical pattern as “it drove me crazy.”

For practice, learners can name a minor, relatable annoyance—such as a phone notification, traffic, or a loud sound—and explain how often it happens. They should consider tone and audience: the phrase is casual, expressive, and not appropriate for every formal setting. The video ends by asking viewers what drives them crazy and by pointing to more examples on Vanessa’s website. The main takeaway is a natural way to express strong but often playful annoyance, supported by a personal story that shows how to place the cause before drive and the affected person after it.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:00

Introducing the story and the expression drive me crazy

Hi, I’m Vanessa from Speak English with Vanessa. Today I’d like to tell you a story about something that . In May 2015, I was working hard to create the course 30 Days of English. For several days in a row, I filmed the course videos with my husband or by myself. Sometimes something happened while I was filming that drove me crazy. What was it?

Try it: Name a repeated small annoyance and say whether it drives you crazy.

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drives me crazy

Introducing the story and the expression drive me crazy · expression

Annoys or frustrates me a lot; often used as informal exaggeration.

Tone and use: Casual and expressive, sometimes humorous. Use it for a repeated annoyance or frustration, even when the problem is not serious.

May not fit: Avoid it in formal settings or when literal mental health is the topic.

Example“The constant phone alerts drive me crazy.”

working really hard

Introducing the story and the expression drive me crazy · expression

Putting a great deal of effort into an activity.

Tone and use: Emphatic and positive. Use it to stress the effort involved in work or a goal.

Example“We’ve been working really hard to prepare for the event.”

vocal and loud

Describing the cat’s loud meowing · collocation

Making a lot of sound, especially by using the voice frequently or loudly.

Tone and use: Descriptive and neutral. Use it to describe a person or animal that often makes sounds or speaks loudly.

Example“The parrot is very vocal and loud in the morning.”

in the middle of my videos

Describing the cat’s loud meowing · expression

During the time when a video is being recorded or watched, before it ends.

Tone and use: Neutral and descriptive. Use in the middle of + noun to identify when an interruption happens.

Example“The doorbell rang in the middle of my presentation.”

start again

Explaining how repeated interruptions stopped the filming · expression

Begin an activity another time after stopping or being interrupted.

Tone and use: Neutral and practical. Use it when you need to repeat a recording, task, or process from the beginning.

Example“The microphone failed, so we had to start again.”

I felt like I was going crazy

Explaining how repeated interruptions stopped the filming · expression

An exaggerated way to describe feeling extremely frustrated or overwhelmed.

Tone and use: Informal and emphatic. Use it casually for a stressful or frustrating situation.

May not fit: Avoid casual exaggeration if mental health is being discussed seriously.

Example“After the fifth delay, I felt like I was going crazy.”

a little funny

Defining drive me crazy and its light tone · expression

Somewhat amusing, even if the situation is also inconvenient.

Tone and use: Light and understated. Use it when something is mildly humorous rather than truly serious.

Example“The mix-up was a little funny once we figured it out.”

couldn’t get him to stop

Defining drive me crazy and its light tone · expression

Was unable to make or persuade him to stop an action.

Tone and use: Conversational and mildly frustrated. Use get + person + to + verb when describing causing someone to do something.

Example“I couldn’t get the dog to stop barking at the mail carrier.”

leave a comment below

Asking viewers to share their own annoyance · expression

Write a response in the comment area beneath a video or post.

Tone and use: Friendly and inviting. Use it to invite viewers to respond online.

Example“Leave a comment below and tell us which recipe you tried.”

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What it means · “drives me crazy”

In Vanessa’s story, what does “the cat drives me crazy” mean?