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Talk about Culture Shock in English [Live Lesson]

Talk about culture shock respectfully with Vanessa: describe unfamiliar customs, returning home, and the feelings that can accompany adjustment.

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Vanessa’s live discussion gives learners language for talking about culture shock without treating one person’s experience as a rule for everyone. She begins with the idea of encountering a place, atmosphere, or routine that feels different from home. Viewers share examples from travel and daily life, including language, greetings, food, and family habits. The lesson is conversational: Vanessa asks questions, responds to comments, and builds on examples rather than presenting a fixed checklist of cultural rules.

“Culture shock” describes surprise, confusion, or difficulty while adjusting to unfamiliar ways of life. Vanessa also introduces “reverse culture shock,” which can happen after someone returns home and discovers that familiar routines feel different. A person may have changed during time away, or may notice details they did not pay attention to before. The phrase does not mean that every return is unpleasant; it names one possible adjustment experience.

The livestream includes a useful sentence frame: “I felt culture shock when…” A specific observation makes this more informative and respectful than a broad judgment. For example, someone can explain that a schedule, greeting, or communication expectation surprised them. “All of a sudden” helps describe a quick change, such as suddenly needing to communicate in another language. Vanessa also discusses how a familiar environment can “feel like another planet.” This is an informal exaggeration for something that seems extremely different, not a literal description.

Some examples concern customs that vary even between households. Vanessa talks about greetings and physical contact, meals, and whether people remove shoes indoors. The phrase “Should I take off my shoes?” is a practical, polite question when visiting a home. Asking is better than assuming that every household in a country follows one practice. Similarly, “I come from a culture that…” can give context, but it should be followed by a careful description of a custom—not a claim that every individual behaves the same way.

For practice, choose one unfamiliar routine you observed and describe your own reaction: what you expected, what happened, and how you adjusted. Use first-person language and avoid ranking one practice as better or worse. If you are a guest, ask your host what they prefer. The main lesson is a set of expressions for reflecting on differences with curiosity: name your experience, be specific, and leave room for variation within every community.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:00

Opening the livestream and introducing the topic

Welcome to the Facebook Live support Sample video from the course The Fearless fluency Club in this video you'll see a recording of the live video that I did on the speak English with Vanessa Facebook page when you join the full course for the Fearless fluency Club you will get Live support like this each week to help you understand and keep up with the full course enjoy this video and learn a lot hello hello welcome to today's

Try it: Notice how Vanessa introduces the culture-shock video and invites viewers to participate.

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6 phrases

culture shock

Opening the livestream and introducing the topic · expression

Surprise, confusion, or difficulty someone may feel when encountering unfamiliar customs or ways of life.

Tone and use: Neutral and commonly used. Use it to describe your own adjustment to unfamiliar surroundings or routines.

May not fit: Do not assume every difference is negative or that one person’s experience represents a whole culture.

Example“I experienced culture shock when daily schedules were so different from what I knew.”

reverse culture shock

Defining culture shock and reverse culture shock · expression

Unexpected difficulty readjusting after returning to a familiar home culture following time away.

Tone and use: Neutral and descriptive. Use it when familiar routines feel strange after living or spending significant time somewhere else.

May not fit: It does not mean that returning is always unpleasant; experiences vary.

Example“After a year abroad, she felt reverse culture shock when she moved back home.”

all of a sudden

Discussing language and communication · expression

Unexpectedly or very quickly, with little time to prepare.

Tone and use: Conversational and common. Use it to emphasize an abrupt change or need, such as suddenly having to communicate in another language.

May not fit: Use it for a genuine abrupt or surprising change, not every ordinary transition.

Example“All of a sudden, I had to explain the problem in a language I was still learning.”

come from a culture that

Comparing greetings and social interaction · expression

Introduce a background or custom that influences someone’s perspective.

Tone and use: Neutral, but the following claim should be specific and careful. Use it to provide context for your own experience or expectations.

May not fit: Avoid treating a whole culture as uniform; name the particular custom and allow for individual differences.

Example“I come from a culture that often uses first names at work, but I ask what each person prefers.”

feels like another planet

Talking about food, family, and everyday routines · expression

Feels extremely unfamiliar or different from what someone knows.

Tone and use: Vivid and informal, sometimes humorous. Use it figuratively to emphasize how unfamiliar a place or situation feels.

May not fit: It is an exaggeration; avoid it if you need a precise or neutral description.

Example“The busy night market felt like another planet compared with my quiet neighborhood.”

take off your shoes

Reflecting on familiar and unfamiliar environments · expression

Remove your shoes, often before entering a home or another place where shoes are not worn.

Tone and use: Neutral and practical. Use it for a direct instruction or question about footwear at a doorway.

May not fit: Customs and expectations differ; ask politely rather than assuming the same rule everywhere.

Example“Should I take off my shoes before I come in?”

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What it means · “culture shock”

A traveler feels surprised and unsure how to respond to unfamiliar daily customs. What might describe the experience?