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Speak with Vanessa on Skype: Testimonial from Lorena

Hear a relaxed learner interview about fitting English around family life, connecting across cultures, and learning through an online community.

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In this testimonial, Vanessa speaks with Lorena, an English learner from Ancona, Italy, about the ways she fits English into family life and what she hopes language learning will make possible for her children. Lorena describes living on the Adriatic coast, working, raising two children, and trying to balance time and resources. The conversation shows how an online learning community can offer flexibility: she can practise when she has time instead of attending every class at a fixed hour. Vanessa responds with follow-up questions and paraphrases that keep the conversation moving, making the clip useful for listening to a relaxed interview as well as noticing everyday expressions.

The interview moves from daily routines to cultural exchange. Lorena wants her children to learn about people and places beyond their immediate surroundings. She describes joining live lessons as a family, asking questions about people in the community, and learning about travel and other cultures. Vanessa notes that English can “open a lot of doors,” meaning it may create new opportunities to communicate, travel, or learn—not that it guarantees a particular outcome. Expressions such as “all around the world” and “the other side of the world” help speakers describe international connections and distance in conversational language.

Lorena also recalls spending four months in Winnipeg, Canada, in 1998. The interview contrasts the cold Canadian winter with the milder weather she was used to in Italy. This personal story gives a reason to practise descriptive language about places and climate, while showing how one conversation can connect language, family memories, travel, and cultural curiosity. Vanessa calls Lorena open-minded and interested in meeting people; open-minded describes receptiveness to different perspectives, not agreement with everything someone says.

Several practical phrases can be reused in other conversations. “At the moment” asks about a current situation. “Fit it in” describes making room for an activity in a busy schedule. “The right balance” can refer to dividing time or attention among competing responsibilities. “Stay warm” is a friendly farewell when someone is heading out in cold weather. Learners can practise these expressions by describing their own schedule, hometown, or a place they have visited. Keep the focus on the speaker’s meaning and listen for Vanessa’s short follow-up responses; together, those turns model how to ask for details, show interest, and build a natural conversation.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:00

Vanessa introduces learner Lorena and asks about her language-learning experience.

hi I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa.com. Today today you are going to meet one of my awesome English students in this video I'm going to talk with a student on Skype and we're going to talk about that students English experiences how they've learned English the things that have been useful or maybe some things that haven't worked and I hope that you will learn a lot from other English learners experiences let's get

Try it: Describe where you live and mention one thing you appreciate about it.

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at the moment

Vanessa introduces learner Lorena and asks about her language-learning experience. · expression

At the present time; now.

Tone and use: Neutral and common in conversation. Use it to ask about or describe a current situation that may change.

May not fit: For a fixed appointment time, give the exact time instead.

Example“At the moment, I’m studying English in the evenings.”

on the coast

Vanessa introduces learner Lorena and asks about her language-learning experience. · expression

In a place next to the sea or ocean.

Tone and use: Neutral geographical language. Use it to describe where a town, home, or destination is located.

May not fit: Use “near the coast” if the place is nearby but not directly coastal.

Example“My grandparents live in a small town on the coast.”

the right balance

Lorena describes living in Ancona, balancing family, work, and flexible English practice. · collocation

A suitable amount or combination of different demands or resources.

Tone and use: Neutral and useful for work, study, and daily planning. Use it when choosing how to divide time, effort, cost, or attention.

May not fit: Name the things being balanced if the context is not clear.

Example“I’m looking for the right balance between work and family time.”

all around the world

The conversation turns to community, cultural exchange, and sharing ideas with her children. · expression

In many different places across the world.

Tone and use: Neutral and conversational. Use it to describe people, events, or experiences found in many countries.

May not fit: If you mean a specific region, name it instead of making a global claim.

Example“The online group brings together learners from all around the world.”

a busy family

The conversation turns to community, cultural exchange, and sharing ideas with her children. · collocation

A family whose members have many activities or responsibilities.

Tone and use: Neutral, everyday wording. Use it to describe a household with a full schedule.

May not fit: It is broad; mention work, school, or care responsibilities when those details matter.

Example“With a busy family, flexible study time can be helpful.”

open-minded

The conversation turns to community, cultural exchange, and sharing ideas with her children. · expression

Willing to consider different ideas, people, or ways of life.

Tone and use: Positive and generally complimentary. Use it to describe someone who is receptive to unfamiliar perspectives.

May not fit: It does not mean agreeing with every idea or ignoring evidence.

Example“She stayed open-minded when she heard a different point of view.”

fit it in

The conversation turns to community, cultural exchange, and sharing ideas with her children. · phrasal verb

Find time for an activity despite an already busy schedule.

Tone and use: Informal and common. Use it when arranging a task or activity around other commitments.

May not fit: It suggests making room in a schedule; it does not mean the task is easy or quick.

Example“I try to fit a short English lesson in during my lunch break.”

travel to almost any country

The conversation turns to community, cultural exchange, and sharing ideas with her children. · expression

Go to nearly any country, with almost no country excluded.

Tone and use: Neutral; almost makes the claim approximate rather than absolute. Use it when describing broad travel possibilities or reach.

May not fit: Do not omit almost if you do not literally mean every country.

Example“With careful planning, you can travel to almost any country you are curious about.”

open a lot of doors

Lorena explains how online learning fits around a busy family and daily responsibilities. · idiom

Create many new opportunities or possibilities.

Tone and use: Positive and widely used. Use it for a skill or experience that can lead to new options.

May not fit: It is figurative and does not guarantee a particular outcome.

Example“Learning another language can open a lot of doors at work and while travelling.”

other side of the world

They discuss international friendships, travel advice, and Lorena’s interest in the interviews. · expression

A place very far away, often across a large distance or ocean.

Tone and use: Conversational and sometimes figurative. Use it to emphasize how far away another place is from your own.

May not fit: Use a specific distance or location when precision matters.

Example“My cousin moved to the other side of the world, so we keep in touch online.”

all together

They discuss international friendships, travel advice, and Lorena’s interest in the interviews. · expression

With everyone in a group participating at the same time.

Tone and use: Neutral and common. Use it to describe a shared family or group activity.

May not fit: Do not confuse it with “altogether,” which can mean completely or in total.

Example“We watched the lesson all together after dinner.”

stay warm

They compare Canadian and Italian weather and reflect on adaptability and sharing experience. · expression

Keep yourself comfortably warm, especially in cold weather.

Tone and use: Friendly and caring; often used as a goodbye in cold conditions. Use it to wish someone well when the weather is cold.

May not fit: In a warm setting, choose a more relevant farewell.

Example“It’s snowing tonight—stay warm on your way home.”

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Use it in a sentence · “at the moment”

Someone asks about your current study routine. Which answer fits?