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Speak With Me: English Speaking Practice

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Vanessa models an extended speaking-practice conversation about education, graduation, what people studied, and experiences that shaped their lives. Rather than presenting a list of isolated vocabulary items, she and her guest ask follow-up questions and share personal examples. Learners can listen for ways to keep a conversation going, answer with a short detail, and then return a question to the other speaker. The discussion is casual and friendly, so it provides examples of natural spoken English rather than formal interview language.

The phrase “When did you graduate?” is a useful question for asking when someone completed school or college. A speaker can answer with a year, such as “I graduated in 2014,” and add the institution or degree if they want to give more detail. In US English, “graduate” may be used without naming the school, or with “from” before the institution: “I graduated from college in 2014.” Asking about education can be personal, so the setting and relationship matter.

Vanessa explains “School of Hard Knocks,” a humorous expression for learning through difficult real-life experiences rather than formal schooling. It is often used self-deprecatingly, but it should not be mistaken for the name of an accredited school. “Hit the books” means study seriously, often in preparation for an exam. It is informal and vivid: “I need to hit the books this weekend.” The expression refers to studying, not physically striking books.

“Expand your horizons” means broaden your knowledge or experiences by encountering new ideas, people, or activities. Vanessa connects the phrase to trying new things and meeting people. It is an encouraging expression that works in conversation and writing. “I got to…” is used in the lesson as a conversational way to describe an opportunity or something one was able to do; the exact meaning depends on the sentence. In standard speech, distinguish “got to” meaning “had the opportunity/need to” from “gotta,” an informal pronunciation of “got to” meaning “have to.”

To practise, ask someone, “When did you graduate?” Then follow up with “What did you study?” and share a related experience of your own. You might say, “I studied biology, and a volunteer project helped expand my horizons.” These questions invite a real exchange, but learners should respect when someone prefers not to discuss their education. The goal is not to interrogate; it is to listen, respond, and share at a comfortable level of detail.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:00

Opens with a conversation about education and graduation.

hey I graduated in ' 052 what did you study if I asked you this would your heart start to pound would your hands get a little bit sweaty she graduated in ' 05 what did I study what well never fear in today's lesson you are going to practice speaking with me about school this is going to be about your high school experience potentially about your college or university experience if you had that and how to have a natural conversation in English about school plus at the end of this lesson you'll have a chance to practice speaking with me and using

Try it: Ask a conversation partner when they graduated and what they studied. Then share one experience that helped expand your horizons.

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when did you graduate

Practises asking when someone graduated. · expression

A question asking when someone completed school or a degree program.

Tone and use: Neutral conversational question. Use it when education is a relevant topic and the relationship makes the question comfortable.

May not fit: Education can be personal; avoid pressing for details if the person changes the subject.

Example“When did you graduate from university?”

I graduated in 09

Practises asking when someone graduated. · expression

A concise way to say the year in which you completed a school or degree program.

Tone and use: Neutral and common. Use “graduated in” followed by a year.

May not fit: Use “graduated from” when naming the institution; do not say “graduated at 2014.”

Example“I graduated in 2019, just before I started my first job.”

School of Hard Knocks

Explains a humorous expression about life experience. · expression

An informal, humorous way to describe learning through difficult life experiences.

Tone and use: Informal and often self-deprecating. Use it jokingly to contrast practical experience with formal education.

May not fit: It is not a real credential or substitute for a named qualification.

Example“I learned budgeting at the School of Hard Knocks after moving out.”

hit the books

Uses got to in a conversational example. · expression

Study seriously, especially to prepare for a test or assignment.

Tone and use: Informal idiom. Use it when someone needs to focus on studying.

May not fit: It means study; it is not a literal instruction to strike books.

Example“I have a chemistry exam Monday, so I’m hitting the books tonight.”

I got to

Uses got to in a conversational example. · expression

A conversational frame that can describe an opportunity or something someone was able to do.

Tone and use: Common spoken frame; meaning depends on context. Use it to tell someone about an opportunity: “I got to meet the author.”

May not fit: In “I’ve got to go,” it means “I have to”; distinguish the two uses by context.

Example“I got to visit the lab during the open house.”

expand your horizons

Explains hit the books and study language. · expression

Broaden your experiences, knowledge, or understanding.

Tone and use: Positive and encouraging. Use it when talking about trying new activities, meeting people, or learning new ideas.

May not fit: It is a broad expression; name the experience if you want to be specific.

Example“Traveling alone helped her expand her horizons.”

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Use it in a sentence · “When did you graduate?”

You are talking about education and want to ask the year someone completed college. What can you ask?