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Vanessa explains the expression “make yourself do something,” meaning to push or force yourself to do an action that feels difficult or does not come naturally. She first connects it to finding time to study English: if a learner has a busy schedule, they may need to make themselves find time for practice. The expression can describe self-discipline without implying that the action is literally forced by another person. “Push yourself” and “force yourself” are close alternatives, though “push yourself” often sounds more encouraging and less coercive.

The grammar also works when one person causes another person to act. Vanessa gives examples with a teacher who used to make her do homework and a boss who makes employees work until seven. In this structure, make is followed by a person and the base form of a verb: make someone do something, not make someone to do something. The examples show both repeated past situations and a present expectation.

Vanessa then applies the phrase to a personal routine. For the last couple of years, she has been going to bed after midnight and has not felt very good when she wakes up. Lately, she has been trying to make herself wake up earlier and go to bed earlier. She explains the benefit: when she goes to bed before midnight, she feels better, feels more rested, and feels ready to take on the day. “For the last couple of years” gives the duration of a continuing pattern; “lately” introduces a recent change or effort.

The central practice task is to name one useful or difficult action you need to make yourself do. A learner might choose to practise speaking, prepare for class, or go to bed earlier, then explain why it is challenging. The closing website and ebook mentions are promotional rather than part of the expression lesson. The key language is the causative pattern, its reflexive use with yourself, and the difference between motivating yourself and making another person do something.

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Introducing the expression and explaining self-motivation

Hi, I’m Vanessa from Speak English with Vanessa. What do you have to make yourself do? Let’s talk about it. If you have to , it means you have to to do something. Maybe it’s difficult for you to English, so you have to make yourself find time for English. You have to push yourself to do something that you don’t normally do. This is the expression I’d like to talk about today: make yourself do something.

Try it: Name one activity you need to make yourself do, and say why it can be difficult.

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make yourself do something

Introducing the expression and explaining self-motivation · expression

Push or motivate yourself to complete an action that feels difficult or unnatural.

Tone and use: Direct and practical; it can sound encouraging or mildly forceful depending on context. Use it when talking about an action you need to make yourself complete.

May not fit: Do not use it to imply that another person is forcing you; name that person if they are the cause.

Example“I have to make myself review my notes after class.”

push yourself

Introducing the expression and explaining self-motivation · expression

Make an effort to do something challenging instead of avoiding it.

Tone and use: Encouraging and motivational. Use it for a personal effort that takes extra determination.

Example“I pushed myself to speak up during the meeting.”

find time for

Introducing the expression and explaining self-motivation · collocation

Arrange time in a busy schedule for an activity or person.

Tone and use: Neutral and common. Use it before a noun or gerund to describe making room in your schedule.

Example“I’m trying to find time for English practice.”

make me do homework

Using make with another person · collocation

Require or cause someone to do an activity; make is followed by a person and a base-form verb.

Tone and use: Can sound neutral, authoritative, or coercive depending on the situation. Use make + person + base verb when describing what someone causes another person to do.

May not fit: Do not add to before the verb in this causative pattern.

Example“My manager made me finish the report before lunch.”

used to make me do

Using make with another person · expression

Describes something a person regularly required you to do in the past.

Tone and use: Neutral; it can suggest a past routine or rule. Use used to + base verb for a repeated past situation that is no longer current.

Example“My parents used to make me finish my homework before dinner.”

for the last couple of years

Applying the expression to a bedtime routine · expression

Throughout approximately the past two years, up to now.

Tone and use: Conversational and approximate. Use it to describe a continuing situation or repeated pattern over recent years.

Example“For the last couple of years, I’ve been working from home.”

lately

Applying the expression to a bedtime routine · expression

During the recent period, especially when describing a new or changing pattern.

Tone and use: Neutral and conversational. Use it to introduce a recent habit, feeling, or effort.

Example“Lately, I’ve been going for a walk after dinner.”

ready to take on the day

Applying the expression to a bedtime routine · expression

Feeling prepared and energized to handle the day's activities.

Tone and use: Positive and upbeat. Use it when describing how you feel after rest or preparation.

Example“A quiet breakfast helps me feel ready to take on the day.”

something you don’t normally do

Inviting the learner to describe a personal challenge · expression

An action that is not part of your usual routine or behavior.

Tone and use: Neutral and explanatory. Use it to describe an activity that is unfamiliar or not habitual.

Example“I’m trying a kind of exercise I don’t normally do.”

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What it means · “make yourself do something”

If you have to make yourself do something, what does that mean?