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Learn Vocabulary Through Conversation: FEELING [Advanced English Lesson]

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Vanessa and Dan explore several ways to use feel and feeling in everyday English. The lesson starts with the physical sense of touch: in a hands-on museum, visitors touch and feel materials and tools. Vanessa explains that touch can describe brief contact, while feel often emphasizes sensing texture or spending longer noticing how something feels. This first meaning gives learners a concrete starting point before the conversation moves to emotions and ideas.

The second use is asking about someone’s emotional or physical state. “How are you feeling today?” can invite someone to describe feeling good, tired, anxious, excited, or sick. Vanessa notes that it is more personal than “How are you doing?” and may be better later in a conversation, or when someone already seems unwell, rather than as an automatic greeting with every person. The example “I feel pretty good” is a natural response when someone feels okay but not especially great.

Next, Dan uses “I have a feeling we’re gonna win” to express an idea or prediction without certainty. A person might also say, “I have a feeling it’s going to rain,” based on clouds or wind. The related phrase “it’s just a feeling” can soften a claim and show that the speaker does not have firm evidence. Vanessa illustrates the overlap between physical sensation and intuition with a present that feels like a book, while the speakers distinguish a guess from definite knowledge.

The final expression is feel it out: try something and observe how it goes before making a decision. Vanessa describes attending a baby-and-mama yoga class without knowing what it would be like. She tries the class, notices that her baby wants to be carried and fed, and decides she may wait a few months before returning. The phrase is useful when someone wants to experiment or assess a situation gradually rather than commit immediately.

Learners can use these patterns to talk about senses, emotional states, uncertain predictions, and trying a new activity. “Feel it out” is especially practical for decisions about classes, jobs, plans, or unfamiliar places. The lesson also models how context changes the meaning of feel: sensing texture is physical, feeling good describes a state, having a feeling expresses an uncertain idea, and feeling something out means testing it in practice.

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Introducing physical touch and feeling

hi i'm vanessa from speak english with vanessa calm and I'm Dan and today we're gonna talk about the word feeling deeply are you ready ready let's go today we're gonna talk about four ways to use the word feeling and if you enjoy today's vocabulary video with Dan feel free to enjoy and learn with our one our vocabulary lesson every month in the fearless fluency Club there's a just a link in the description

Try it: Write one sentence about a physical feeling, one about an uncertain prediction, and one about trying something out before deciding.

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touch and feel different materials

Introducing physical touch and feeling · expression

Use your hands to sense the surface or texture of different things.

Tone and use: Neutral, sensory description. Use it to describe interactive exhibits or examining materials.

May not fit: For delicate or restricted items, follow the venue’s instructions before touching.

Example“At the museum, children can touch and feel different materials.”

getting a better understanding of

Comparing touch and feel · expression

Learning more clearly about something through experience or information.

Tone and use: Neutral and explanatory. Use it to describe how observation or practice improves understanding.

May not fit: Name what you are trying to understand if context is unclear.

Example“Handling the fabric gave me a better understanding of its texture.”

how are you feeling today

Comparing touch and feel · expression

A question asking about someone’s current physical or emotional state.

Tone and use: Caring, somewhat personal. Use it when you have a reason to check on someone or continue a conversation.

May not fit: For a casual first greeting, how are you doing may feel less personal.

Example“You sounded tired earlier—how are you feeling today?”

feel pretty good

Comparing touch and feel · expression

Feel fairly well or in a positive state.

Tone and use: Casual, mildly positive. Use it to describe feeling okay or well, without claiming to feel excellent.

May not fit: Pretty here means fairly; it does not mean attractive.

Example“I slept well, so I feel pretty good today.”

a little too personal

Asking about someone’s state · expression

Somewhat more private or intimate than is appropriate.

Tone and use: Gentle caution. Use it when a question may ask for information someone prefers to keep private.

May not fit: Do not assume every person has the same boundary; consider context and relationship.

Example“That question may be a little too personal for a first meeting.”

I have a feeling

Asking about someone’s state · expression

I suspect or intuit something, but I am not certain.

Tone and use: Conversational, tentative. Use it to express a hunch or prediction.

May not fit: It is not proof; make clear when you are guessing.

Example“I have a feeling the train will be crowded.”

just a feeling

Choosing a personal greeting · expression

Only an intuition or impression, not a conclusion supported by firm evidence.

Tone and use: Tentative and softening. Use it to show that you are uncertain about a guess.

May not fit: Do not present a feeling as verified information.

Example“It’s just a feeling, but I think we should leave early.”

pretty young and unpredictable

Describing a guess based on evidence · expression

Still young and not yet behaving in a predictable way.

Tone and use: Conversational description. Use it to explain why an experience involving a baby or child may be hard to plan.

May not fit: It describes uncertainty, not a judgment about a child’s character.

Example“The baby is pretty young and unpredictable, so we’ll keep plans flexible.”

feel it out

Describing a guess based on evidence · expression

Try or experience a situation to learn whether it suits you before deciding.

Tone and use: Informal, practical. Use it for testing a class, plan, job, or unfamiliar situation gradually.

May not fit: It describes exploring first, not making a final judgment without experience.

Example“I’ll attend one class and feel it out before I sign up.”

wasn't completely successful

Describing a guess based on evidence · expression

Did not work perfectly or achieve everything intended.

Tone and use: Mild and tactful. Use it to describe an attempt with mixed results.

May not fit: It does not mean the whole experience was a failure.

Example“The first class wasn’t completely successful, but I learned what to change.”

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What it means · “touch and feel different materials”

At a hands-on museum, what does touch and feel different materials mean?