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Vanessa uses a conversation about her young son to discuss the difference between understanding English and producing it. The video connects language learning with everyday interaction: adults speak to a child, respond to sounds, and give meaning to early attempts at communication. For English learners, the example is a reminder that receptive skills—understanding what you hear—may develop before speaking feels comfortable.

“Understand more than you can say” describes having stronger comprehension than speaking ability. A learner may recognize many words in a conversation but still need time to form an answer. It is a common experience, not proof that learning has stopped. Speaking grows through chances to retrieve words, try a response, and hear how other people use the language.

The phrase “air conditioning over there” is a simple location phrase from the family’s conversation. “Over there” points to a place at some distance from the speaker. It is useful in everyday situations when showing someone where an object or sound is. “Climbing up” describes moving upward, as Vanessa observes her son. The particle “up” emphasizes the direction of the movement.

Vanessa describes adults “interacting with babies” and “talking back to them” when they make sounds. Here, “talk back to” means respond to someone by speaking; it is neutral in this context. In other situations, “talk back” can mean speaking disrespectfully to an authority figure, so context matters. “Babbling” refers to producing repeated or unclear speech sounds, especially in early childhood. The lesson explains that a baby may be saying sounds without conventional words, while adults still respond warmly.

For learners, the practical takeaway is to keep participating even when speaking is less developed than understanding. Try repeating a short line, answering a simple question, or describing what you see. Do not wait until you can produce a perfect sentence before joining a conversation. Listening gives you examples; speaking practice helps you make those examples your own. A supportive exchange—someone says something, you respond, and the conversation continues—can make the gap between comprehension and speech feel more manageable.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:00

Introduces learning through interaction with a young child.

Hi I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa com Would you like to learn English like a native speaker Of course Let's talk about it Would you like to see how my son a native English speaker is learning his native language Today we're going to talk about three things that happen naturally during conversations with him that are helping him to learn to speak English And I'm curious as you watch this video think about mothers and fathers in your country Do they do these things as well I have a son who just turned one year old You're going to meet him in this lesson and he already knows how to say a couple things

Try it: Describe something you can understand more easily than you can say. Use one phrase from the lesson, then name a small speaking practice you could try.

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understand more than you can say

Introduces learning through interaction with a young child. · expression

Comprehend more English than you are currently able to produce in speech.

Tone and use: Common language-learning observation. Use it to describe a gap between receptive and speaking skills.

May not fit: It describes current ability, not a permanent limit.

Example“I understand more than I can say when people speak quickly.”

climbing up

Describes everyday sounds and actions around the child. · expression

Moving upward by using hands, feet, or another form of effort.

Tone and use: Everyday movement phrase. Use it to describe someone or something moving higher.

May not fit: Add the object or location when the direction is not clear.

Example“The toddler is climbing up the small steps.”

interacting with babies

Describes everyday sounds and actions around the child. · expression

Communicating or engaging with babies through speech, attention, or response.

Tone and use: Neutral everyday phrase. Use it to describe reciprocal engagement with a baby.

May not fit: It describes engagement broadly; it does not specify a particular action.

Example“She enjoys interacting with babies at the family center.”

air conditioning over there

Describes everyday sounds and actions around the child. · expression

The air-conditioning unit or system located at some distance from the speaker.

Tone and use: Everyday location phrase. Use “over there” while pointing out a location away from you.

May not fit: “Over there” depends on a shared visual or spatial context.

Example“The air conditioning over there is making a loud sound.”

talking back to them

Discusses babbling and conversational interaction. · expression

Responding to them by speaking; in this lesson, responding to a baby’s sounds.

Tone and use: Context-dependent phrase. Use it neutrally for answering someone when the context is clear.

May not fit: When directed at a child, “talking back” can imply disrespect; context changes the tone.

Example“The teacher kept talking back to the children’s questions.”

saying nonsense

Discusses babbling and conversational interaction. · expression

Producing words or sounds that do not make clear or meaningful sense.

Tone and use: Conversational phrase. Use it when speech is unclear or does not communicate a coherent idea.

May not fit: It can sound dismissive when describing someone’s serious speech.

Example“The toddler was happily saying nonsense to the toy.”

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What it means · “understand more than you can say”

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