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[Idiom Practice] Living Under A Rock

Understand the informal idiom “living under a rock,” and learn when it can sound funny, teasing, or rude.

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Vanessa’s livestream teaches the idiom “living under a rock.” She first asks viewers to guess what it means, then explains that it describes someone who has not heard about important or widely discussed events. It is figurative: the person is not literally hiding beneath a rock. The image helps explain the idea of being cut off from what is happening around you.

The main example is the question “Have you been living under a rock?” Vanessa notes that this can be a joke, but advises using a smile and thinking about the relationship. The phrase is informal and teasing. With a close friend who understands your humor, it may be playful; directed seriously at a new coworker or someone who lacks access to the information, it can sound insulting. A neutral alternative is to say, “I didn’t realize you hadn’t heard about it,” or simply explain the news.

The lesson uses expressions for widely discussed information. Vanessa says that an event may be something “everyone’s talking about” or “all over the Internet.” These are emphatic conversational descriptions, not literal claims that every person or website is involved. “Everyone should know about” expresses the speaker’s view that something is important or widely known. That wording can sound judgmental, so learners should consider whether they know the listener’s circumstances before using it.

Vanessa also plays with the image by saying “come out from under the rock.” In context, it is a light invitation to rejoin the conversation, but it could also mock someone if used without care. Toward the end, she connects the idiom to “current events,” meaning notable things happening in the world now. This livestream was recorded in 2017 and discusses celebrity and political events from that period. Those references are historical examples, not current news. The phrase “current events” itself changes meaning as time passes.

For practice, describe a harmless moment when you missed a popular show, announcement, or online trend. You can say, “I’ve been living under a rock,” if the tone is clearly self-deprecating. When speaking to someone else, prefer a kind question rather than assuming everyone had the same information. The lesson’s key point is both linguistic and social: understand the idiom’s meaning, and use its teasing tone only when it is welcome.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:01

Opening the livestream and greeting viewers

Hello welcome to today's live lesson here on the speak English with Vanessa YouTube channel I'm so glad that you're here to spend time with me with our community and to learn English in the new year happy New Year everyone happy 20 2017 I'm so glad that you are using the new year to improve your English so welcome if you are new here please introduce yourself let me know where you're from why are you interested in

Try it: Notice the informal community setting before the idiom lesson begins.

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living under a rock

Introducing and guessing the idiom · idiom

Not knowing about important or widely discussed events or information.

Tone and use: Informal and teasing; it can sound rude if used seriously. Use it jokingly with someone who will understand the playful tone, often after they miss well-known news.

May not fit: Avoid it when someone may feel embarrassed, lacks access to the information, or does not know you well.

Example“I had no idea the show was back—I’ve been living under a rock.”

what's going on out there

Introducing and guessing the idiom · expression

What is happening in the wider world or around a person.

Tone and use: Conversational and broad. Use it to refer generally to events outside someone’s immediate experience.

May not fit: For a specific issue, name the topic instead of leaving “what” broad.

Example“I took a break from social media and missed what was going on out there.”

everyone's talking about

Explaining the joking tone · expression

Something is being discussed by many people in a group or community.

Tone and use: Informal and emphatic; “everyone” may be an exaggeration. Use it for a widely discussed topic, especially when introducing shared context.

May not fit: Do not assume literally every person knows about it; soften the claim if needed.

Example“The new library is what everyone’s talking about this week.”

all over the Internet

Connecting the idiom to widely known news · expression

Appearing or being discussed on many online sites and platforms.

Tone and use: Informal and emphatic. Use it to say that information or a topic is widely visible online.

May not fit: It is an exaggeration, not a claim that every website contains the same thing.

Example“Photos of the meteor shower were all over the Internet.”

everyone should know about

Connecting the idiom to widely known news · expression

A speaker’s opinion that information is important enough for people to know.

Tone and use: Strong and judgmental unless context makes it playful. Use it when emphasizing that information seems widely known or important to you.

May not fit: Be sensitive: people may have different access, interests, or reasons for not knowing.

Example“The safety change is important, so everyone should know about it.”

come out from under the rock

Practising with viewer examples · expression

Figuratively, emerge from isolation or lack of awareness and rejoin what is happening.

Tone and use: Playful in Vanessa’s invitation, but potentially mocking. Use it as a joking extension of “living under a rock” with a familiar audience.

May not fit: Do not use it to shame someone for being offline, isolated, or uninformed.

Example“Come out from under the rock and join us for the game—just kidding, we saved you a seat.”

current events

Reviewing the idiom and closing · collocation

Important or notable things happening in the world at the present time.

Tone and use: Neutral and common, especially in education and news. Use it for recent public, social, or political events.

May not fit: Current changes over time; give a date or source when discussing past events.

Example“Our class discusses current events once a week.”

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What it means · “living under a rock”

If a person says, “I’ve been living under a rock,” what do they usually mean?