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How To Use "Brush It Off" In Conversation

Learn how Vanessa uses “brush it off” to describe letting go of an upsetting mishap after burnt chili and a broken window.

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Vanessa tells a personal story about a cooking mishap and a broken window, then explains the informal expression “brush it off.” The story took place while she was teaching an online lesson and reheating chili. She became aware of the problem when she smelled something burning, but she kept teaching while her husband tried to clear the smoky kitchen. In the cold weather, the window was brittle and broke as he tried to open it. He received a small cut, the dinner was burnt, and the room was full of smoke.

After the immediate problem was over, Vanessa says there was nothing they could do about what had happened. They could not change the past, so they had to “brush it off.” In this context, the idiom means to let go of a relatively small setback rather than keep dwelling on it or becoming angry. She also connects it with “get over it,” another expression about recovering from an upsetting experience. They are related, but “brush it off” often emphasizes not giving a minor event too much attention, while “get over it” can describe the process of recovering emotionally.

The story gives practical language for recounting an accident: something can be “burning to a crisp,” a kitchen can be “full of smoke,” and a window can be “brittle” and shatter. Vanessa also uses phrases such as “there was nothing we could do about it” to express that a situation could not be changed. These concrete details make the meaning of the idiom easier to follow in context.

The lesson does not suggest that people should dismiss serious harm or another person’s feelings. Vanessa’s example includes a small accident that was over and could not be undone; in a serious situation, it is more appropriate to address the harm, seek help, or acknowledge someone’s concern. At the end, she asks viewers to recall “a time in your life” when something annoying or difficult happened and they chose to move on. Learners can practise by describing a minor, resolved problem, explaining what they did next, and using “brush it off” only when that response fits. The expressions work together for both storytelling and everyday conversation about setbacks.

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Vanessa introduces the idiom and begins her story about cooking while teaching online

Hi, I’m Vanessa from Speak English with Vanessa dot com. Today I’m going to tell you about something bad that happened and that I needed to brush off. Then I’ll explain the expression brush it off. Let’s get started. This story took place last February. I was teaching a Skype lesson to someone in this room. , I was cooking dinner in the other room, but I forgot about the food. I had turned something on and was reheating chili on the stove. I was teaching my lesson while the chili reheated. , I smelled something very strong and burnt.

Try it: Describe two things that happened at the same time during a busy day.

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at the same time

Vanessa introduces the idiom and begins her story about cooking while teaching online · expression

During the same period as another activity.

Tone and use: Neutral and conversational. Use it to explain that two things happened simultaneously.

May not fit: Avoid it if the events happened one after another rather than together.

Example“I was listening to a podcast at the same time I was making dinner.”

in the middle of my Skype lesson

Vanessa introduces the idiom and begins her story about cooking while teaching online · expression

While the lesson was already happening, before it had finished.

Tone and use: Neutral; it emphasizes that an event interrupted an ongoing activity. Use in the middle of + event or activity to locate something during its course.

May not fit: Use during for a more formal or less specific description.

Example“The delivery arrived in the middle of my meeting.”

burning to a crisp

Her husband finds the smoky kitchen and explains why the cold window is easy to break · expression

Burning until food becomes completely charred or unusable.

Tone and use: Informal and vivid. Use it to describe food that has been burned badly.

May not fit: It is an exaggeration for food that is only slightly overcooked.

Example“I forgot about the toast, and it burned to a crisp.”

brittle

Her husband finds the smoky kitchen and explains why the cold window is easy to break · expression

Hard but easily cracked or broken, especially when old or cold.

Tone and use: Neutral descriptive vocabulary. Use it for materials that break rather than bend under pressure.

May not fit: Do not confuse it with flexible or soft.

Example“The dry branches were brittle and snapped in my hands.”

let the smoke out

Her husband finds the smoky kitchen and explains why the cold window is easy to break · expression

Allow smoke to leave an enclosed space, usually by opening a window or door.

Tone and use: Practical and direct. Use it when describing ventilation after smoke has built up indoors.

May not fit: For normal airflow without smoke, say let some fresh air in.

Example“We opened the back door to let the smoke out.”

hear glass shatter

The window breaks; Vanessa checks that her husband is safe and finishes her lesson · expression

Hear glass break suddenly into pieces.

Tone and use: Vivid and descriptive. Use it to describe the sound of glass breaking.

May not fit: Use hear the glass break if you mean one particular pane and want a less vivid phrase.

Example“We heard glass shatter when the vase fell off the shelf.”

ran into the kitchen

The window breaks; Vanessa checks that her husband is safe and finishes her lesson · expression

Went quickly into the kitchen, usually because something urgent happened.

Tone and use: Active and informal. Use run into + place to describe moving there quickly.

May not fit: Do not use it for a calm, unhurried entrance.

Example“I ran into the kitchen when I smelled something burning.”

there was nothing we could do about it

The window breaks; Vanessa checks that her husband is safe and finishes her lesson · expression

The situation could not be changed or fixed at that point.

Tone and use: Matter-of-fact and resigned. Use it when an outcome is beyond your control.

May not fit: Avoid it when there are still practical steps that could solve the problem.

Example“The last train had left, and there was nothing we could do about it.”

brush it off

Vanessa explains brush it off and relates it to the expression get over it · idiom

Decide not to dwell on a relatively minor problem or upsetting event and move on.

Tone and use: Informal and reassuring. Use it when someone chooses not to let a small setback bother them for long.

May not fit: Do not use it to minimize serious harm, an injury, or another person’s important feelings.

Example“I made a small mistake in the presentation, brushed it off, and continued.”

get over it

Vanessa explains brush it off and relates it to the expression get over it · phrasal verb

Recover emotionally from something upsetting or difficult.

Tone and use: Can sound sympathetic, but as a command it may sound dismissive. Use it to describe recovering from a disappointment, or carefully encourage someone to move forward.

May not fit: Avoid telling someone to “get over it” when they are sharing serious hurt; it can sound insensitive.

Example“It took me a few days to get over the disappointment.”

get angry about it

Vanessa explains brush it off and relates it to the expression get over it · expression

Become angry because of a particular situation.

Tone and use: Neutral description of an emotional reaction. Use get angry about + noun or event to identify the cause of anger.

May not fit: Do not assume someone should not feel anger; Vanessa is describing her response to this particular mishap.

Example“I was frustrated, but I didn’t get angry about the delay.”

a time in your life

She invites viewers to recall a minor setback and closes the video · expression

A particular period or occasion in someone’s life.

Tone and use: Conversational and reflective. Use it when asking someone to recall one experience from their past.

May not fit: Use a specific date or time instead when precision matters.

Example“Can you remember a time in your life when a plan went wrong?”

annoying or difficult

She invites viewers to recall a minor setback and closes the video · expression

Causing irritation or requiring effort to deal with.

Tone and use: Everyday and descriptive. Use these adjectives to describe a frustrating or challenging experience.

May not fit: Choose a more precise word when the situation is serious or harmful.

Example“The delay was annoying and difficult to manage, but we stayed calm.”

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What it means · “burning to a crisp”

If food is burning to a crisp, what has happened?