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How to Use "AS THEY SAY": Advanced English vocabulary expression lesson

Understand how “as they say” can follow a familiar idiom to mark it as a common figurative expression, and practise it without adding it mechanically to every saying.

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Vanessa explains the expression “as they say,” which she often places after an idiom. It can work like a small afterthought, signaling that the preceding words are a familiar expression and should be understood figuratively rather than literally. She begins with “the sky is falling,” then demonstrates the pattern with several idioms. The phrase is optional; it is not necessary to add it every time someone uses an idiom.

One example is “the grass is greener on the other side,” an idiom about imagining that someone else’s situation is better than your own. Vanessa adds “as they say” at the end: “The grass is greener on the other side, as they say.” The tag comments on the saying rather than changing its basic meaning. It can give the speaker a knowing or conversational tone, as if recognizing a familiar expression.

She also uses “my cup of tea,” meaning something a person likes or enjoys. In “English is my cup of tea, as they say,” the phrase is not about a literal drink. Vanessa notes that “cup of tea” is a metaphor. Another example is “living under a rock,” which describes being unaware of events or things that many people know about, such as pop culture or news. A speaker might say, “He’s living under a rock, as they say.” Again, the expression does not describe someone physically living beneath a rock.

Vanessa emphasizes that learners can choose whether to include “as they say” or leave it out. The lesson is about recognizing the phrase when it appears in English movies, television, and conversation, then deciding whether it fits their own speech. It sounds most natural when the preceding phrase is recognizable as an idiom or saying; it would be odd after an ordinary literal sentence.

To practise, choose an idiom you know and use it in a sentence followed by “as they say.” Check that the idiom is being used figuratively and that the tag sounds like a natural aside. Vanessa invites viewers to share their sentences and offers feedback. The ebook and subscription invitation at the end are optional channel promotions.

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Introducing “as they say” as an expression added after an idiom.

Hi I'm Vanessa from speakenglishwithvanessa com Oh no the sky is falling Let's talk about it In today's video lesson we're going to talk about the quick expression as they say As they say I already used this a couple seconds ago after an idiom I said Oh no the sky is falling As they say This expression as they say is kind of You just add it to the end of a sentence It's not the most important part of the sentence but it has an important meaning So let's talk about what it actually means Often times we

Try it: Choose an idiom you know and write a natural sentence that ends with “as they say.” Then explain whether the idiom is literal or figurative in that sentence.

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as they say

Introducing “as they say” as an expression added after an idiom. · expression

A phrase added to refer to a familiar saying or idiom, often as a conversational aside.

Tone and use: Conversational and optional; commonly placed after the saying. Use it after a proverb or idiom when you want to signal that it is a familiar expression.

May not fit: It is usually unnecessary after a literal, ordinary statement.

Example“The early bird catches the worm, as they say.”

an afterthought

Introducing “as they say” as an expression added after an idiom. · expression

A comment added after the main point, rather than being its central idea.

Tone and use: Neutral explanatory noun. Use it for an extra thought mentioned after the main statement.

May not fit: An afterthought can sound secondary; put important information first.

Example“As an afterthought, I added a note about the parking entrance.”

figurative

Explaining that the phrase can signal figurative rather than literal meaning. · expression

Using language in a nonliteral way to express an idea or comparison.

Tone and use: Neutral language-analysis term. Use it when a phrase means more than or something different from its literal words.

May not fit: Explain the intended meaning if the listener may not know the expression.

Example““The news spread like wildfire” is figurative language.”

the grass is greener on the other side

Applying “as they say” to the idiom about greener grass on the other side. · expression

Other people’s situations can seem better than your own, especially when you do not see their difficulties.

Tone and use: Common proverb-like idiom. Use it when someone assumes another option or person’s life is better.

May not fit: It can oversimplify a real decision; compare the actual pros and cons too.

Example“I thought the new job would be perfect, but the grass is greener on the other side.”

my cup of tea

Applying the expression to “cup of tea” and clarifying the metaphor. · expression

Something that a person likes or enjoys.

Tone and use: Common informal idiom. Use it to describe a preferred activity, style, or subject.

May not fit: The negative form “not my cup of tea” is often used to express dislike gently.

Example“Quiet weekends at home are my cup of tea.”

not really your cup of tea

Applying the expression to “cup of tea” and clarifying the metaphor. · expression

Not something you particularly like or enjoy.

Tone and use: Informal and usually tactful. Use it when politely saying that an activity or style is not your preference.

May not fit: It describes personal preference; avoid presenting it as an objective judgment.

Example“Horror movies are not really my cup of tea.”

living under a rock

Reviewing “living under a rock” as an idiom about being unaware. · expression

Being unaware of news, popular culture, or information that many people know.

Tone and use: Informal idiom; can sound teasing or critical. Use it jokingly when someone has not heard widely known news or references.

May not fit: It may embarrass someone; use a neutral question if you want to avoid teasing.

Example“I was living under a rock and had never heard that song.”

leave it out

Showing that the expression is optional and learners will hear it in media and conversation. · expression

Choose not to include something.

Tone and use: Common phrasal verb. Use it when deciding that a word, detail, or item is unnecessary.

May not fit: Specify what “it” refers to when context is not clear.

Example“The sentence is clearer if we leave that extra phrase out.”

looking forward to

Inviting learners to combine an idiom with “as they say” in their own sentence. · expression

Feeling pleased or excited about something expected in the future.

Tone and use: Common and friendly phrase. Use it before a noun or an -ing verb to describe positive anticipation.

May not fit: Follow “to” with a noun or an -ing form, not a bare verb.

Example“I’m looking forward to reading your suggestions.”

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Use it in a sentence · “as they say”

Which sentence uses “as they say” as Vanessa demonstrates?