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How to say You're Welcome: Back to English Basics Series

Learn how to respond to thanks with polite phrases such as “You’re welcome” and “It’s my pleasure,” plus casual replies like “No problem” and “Don’t worry about it.”

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Vanessa reviews several ways to respond when someone thanks you. The expressions differ in tone and emphasis, so the best choice depends on the relationship, setting, and size of the favor. She moves from more formal responses to casual ones and illustrates the difference with a story about a stranger returning her husband Dan’s notebook.

“You’re welcome” is the familiar response many learners first study. Vanessa says it works in daily conversation but may feel a little more formal than the later examples. “It’s my pleasure” is another warm response. She explains that it can fit when you enjoyed helping or did not find the task burdensome. It communicates goodwill rather than treating the favor as an inconvenience.

Vanessa’s story gives context for “No problem.” Dan left his notebook at a grocery store and thought it was lost. A stranger found the notebook and brought it to their home, apparently because their address was written inside. Dan was very grateful, but the person who returned it treated the action casually. In that setting, “No problem” meant the favor was not a burden for him. Vanessa points out that the same event mattered a great deal to Dan, which is why the phrase reflects the helper’s perspective rather than the recipient’s level of gratitude.

The stranger could also have said “Don’t worry about it.” Vanessa explains this as a way to reassure someone that they need not dwell on the kind act or feel overly concerned about repaying it. She describes the gesture as coming “out of the goodness of his heart,” an appreciative way to say he acted from kindness. These informal responses can feel warm among people speaking casually, while a more formal or professional exchange may call for a different tone.

To practise, think of a small favor and a bigger favor. Try “You’re welcome,” “It’s my pleasure,” or “No problem,” and notice how each feels. You can also use “Don’t worry about it” when you want to reassure someone. None of these phrases cancels the other person’s thanks; they simply express your response. Vanessa invites viewers to write the expression that feels most comfortable. Her review guide mentioned in the video is an optional resource.

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Introducing the Back to Basics series and the response “no problem.”

hi I'm Vanessa from speak englishwith vanessa no problem let's talk about it welcome to the fourth video in the series because this month July 2017 is the month that my baby will be born I thought we could go back to the beginning of English Go Back to Basics and talk about some important fundamental elements of English conversation so if you would like to get

Try it: Imagine someone thanks you for a small favor and then for a more significant favor. Choose a response that fits each situation, and explain whether you want to sound formal, warm, or casual.

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Back to Basics

Introducing the Back to Basics series and the response “no problem.” · expression

A return to the most important or fundamental parts of a subject.

Tone and use: Common series-title phrase. Use it when reviewing foundational ideas or beginning again with essentials.

May not fit: It does not mean that every learner needs the same starting point.

Example“The workshop goes back to basics before introducing advanced tools.”

respond to you

Setting up the situation: how to respond when someone says thank you. · expression

Say or do something in reply to you.

Tone and use: Neutral everyday phrase. Use it when describing how you answer a comment, question, or expression of thanks.

May not fit: Name the situation when the kind of response is unclear.

Example“I was not sure how to respond to your message.”

You’re welcome

Expression one: “You’re welcome” as a familiar, somewhat formal response. · expression

A conventional response after someone thanks you.

Tone and use: Polite and widely understood; can sound somewhat formal in casual conversation. Use it in everyday or professional settings after receiving thanks.

May not fit: Tone matters; a warm, relaxed delivery keeps it from sounding stiff.

Example““Thanks for explaining the form.” “You’re welcome.””

It’s my pleasure

Expression two: “It’s my pleasure” when helping felt enjoyable or easy. · expression

A warm way to say that helping was enjoyable or gladly done.

Tone and use: Polite and appreciative. Use it after helping when you want to emphasize that you were glad to do it.

May not fit: It can sound overly formal in a very casual exchange; a simple “No problem” may fit better.

Example“It’s my pleasure to show you around the office.”

big deal

Expression two: “It’s my pleasure” when helping felt enjoyable or easy. · expression

Something important or difficult; in a negative phrase, something not especially burdensome.

Tone and use: Common informal phrase. Use it to talk about the importance or effort involved in something.

May not fit: It can minimize another person’s concern; make sure that is appropriate.

Example“The repair was quick, so it was not a big deal.”

lost forever

Telling how a stranger returned Dan’s notebook after finding it at a store. · expression

Gone in a way that makes it seem unlikely to be found again.

Tone and use: Emphatic everyday phrase. Use it when you believe an item cannot be recovered.

May not fit: It is often an emotional exaggeration rather than a literal prediction.

Example“I thought my notes were lost forever after the laptop stopped working.”

No problem

Using “no problem” to respond casually when the favor was not a burden. · expression

A casual response meaning that helping or doing something was not troublesome.

Tone and use: Informal and common. Use it after thanks for a favor you were happy to do.

May not fit: In formal correspondence, a more polished response may be preferable.

Example““Thanks for holding the door.” “No problem.””

Don’t worry about it

Explaining “Don’t worry about it” and the stranger’s kind act. · expression

Reassure someone that they do not need to be concerned or feel indebted about something.

Tone and use: Warm, casual phrase. Use it to comfort someone or downplay a small favor or mistake.

May not fit: Do not use it to dismiss a serious concern that deserves attention.

Example““Sorry I was a few minutes late.” “Don’t worry about it.””

out of the goodness of his heart

Explaining “Don’t worry about it” and the stranger’s kind act. · expression

Because he wanted to be kind or helpful, without expecting a reward.

Tone and use: Warm, appreciative idiom. Use it to describe a generous action motivated by kindness.

May not fit: It makes an inference about someone’s motive; use it when the context supports that interpretation.

Example“A neighbor brought us soup out of the goodness of her heart.”

positive feedback

Inviting learners to choose a response to Vanessa’s thanks and write it themselves. · expression

Encouraging or approving comments about someone’s work or contribution.

Tone and use: Neutral and supportive phrase. Use it when describing helpful responses that recognize what went well.

May not fit: Feedback is most useful when it is sincere and specific.

Example“The new employee received positive feedback from the team.”

write it out

Inviting learners to choose a response to Vanessa’s thanks and write it themselves. · expression

Write the complete words or idea rather than only thinking about it.

Tone and use: Common practical expression. Use it when asking someone to put a response or plan into writing.

May not fit: It can mean different things in other contexts, such as writing a check amount in words.

Example“If you have an idea, write it out before the meeting.”

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