Vanessa reviews several ways to respond when someone thanks you. The expressions differ in tone and emphasis, so the best choice depends on the relationship, setting, and size of the favor. She moves from more formal responses to casual ones and illustrates the difference with a story about a stranger returning her husband Dan’s notebook.
“You’re welcome” is the familiar response many learners first study. Vanessa says it works in daily conversation but may feel a little more formal than the later examples. “It’s my pleasure” is another warm response. She explains that it can fit when you enjoyed helping or did not find the task burdensome. It communicates goodwill rather than treating the favor as an inconvenience.
Vanessa’s story gives context for “No problem.” Dan left his notebook at a grocery store and thought it was lost. A stranger found the notebook and brought it to their home, apparently because their address was written inside. Dan was very grateful, but the person who returned it treated the action casually. In that setting, “No problem” meant the favor was not a burden for him. Vanessa points out that the same event mattered a great deal to Dan, which is why the phrase reflects the helper’s perspective rather than the recipient’s level of gratitude.
The stranger could also have said “Don’t worry about it.” Vanessa explains this as a way to reassure someone that they need not dwell on the kind act or feel overly concerned about repaying it. She describes the gesture as coming “out of the goodness of his heart,” an appreciative way to say he acted from kindness. These informal responses can feel warm among people speaking casually, while a more formal or professional exchange may call for a different tone.
To practise, think of a small favor and a bigger favor. Try “You’re welcome,” “It’s my pleasure,” or “No problem,” and notice how each feels. You can also use “Don’t worry about it” when you want to reassure someone. None of these phrases cancels the other person’s thanks; they simply express your response. Vanessa invites viewers to write the expression that feels most comfortable. Her review guide mentioned in the video is an optional resource.