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How To Meet English Speakers Anywhere

Learn how shared-interest meetups can help you start conversations with local people while travelling or at home.

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Vanessa suggests using interest-based meetups as one way to meet English speakers while travelling or in your own city. She begins with a common concern: learners may want to practise English and meet people from another culture, but walking up to a stranger and asking to be friends can feel unrealistic. Her practical idea is to look for a group event organized around an activity you already enjoy, such as hiking, photography, sports, language exchange, or a local business topic.

She illustrates the idea with examples she found on Meetup.com in New York and London. The original video mentions group sizes, past events, and activities such as art museums, festivals, pubs, walking tours, drawing, and climbing. Those numbers and group listings are historical examples from the recording, not current listings or guarantees; learners should check present-day event details and choose a setting that feels comfortable. The more transferable point is to use a shared activity as a natural conversation starter rather than treating every interaction as a cold introduction.

Vanessa also describes attending language-exchange gatherings in her hometown and a volleyball meetup while living in Paris. A familiar interest can make it easier to approach people, ask questions, and practise English with a purpose. The lesson’s useful expressions include “meet local people,” “a wide variety of events,” and “it does take a lot of courage.” That last phrase acknowledges that going somewhere new can feel intimidating, while “you won’t regret it” offers encouragement rather than certainty. Learners can adapt the method by searching for a safe, public event in their destination, reading its current details, and preparing one simple question about the activity. The advice works beyond travel: local hobby groups can also create chances to meet people at home. The lesson does not promise that every event will lead to friendship or fluency; it models a practical, interest-led way to begin a conversation.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:03

Why meeting local English speakers can feel difficult

Hi, I’m Vanessa from Speak English with Vanessa dot com, where you can have natural conversations in English without stress. A lot of my students have told me on Skype that it’s difficult to while travelling. This can be especially important when they visit English-speaking countries. They want to practise English and meet people from another culture. But you can’t really on the street and . So today I’m going to share my number one tip for meeting locals in almost any city, even your hometown. Let’s go.

Try it: Name one shared activity that could make it easier to meet people.

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meet local people

Why meeting local English speakers can feel difficult · expression

Meet people who live in the area you are visiting or in your own community.

Tone and use: Neutral and practical. Use it when talking about connecting with residents while travelling or exploring a place.

May not fit: It does not guarantee that the people you meet will become friends or conversation partners.

Example“I’d like to meet local people when I visit Montreal.”

walk up to a stranger

Why meeting local English speakers can feel difficult · expression

Approach someone you do not know, usually by walking over to them.

Tone and use: Everyday and direct. Use it to describe approaching an unfamiliar person in a public place.

May not fit: It may feel intrusive if the other person is busy or does not welcome conversation.

Example“I felt nervous about walking up to a stranger at the conference.”

ask them to be your friend

Why meeting local English speakers can feel difficult · expression

Directly ask someone you have just met to become your friend.

Tone and use: Literal and conversational; Vanessa uses it to explain why a cold approach can feel awkward. Use this wording when describing a very direct request for friendship.

May not fit: In most adult introductions, friendship develops gradually rather than through this direct request.

Example“Instead of asking someone to be your friend, start by talking about the activity you share.”

choose any interest

Searching for a meetup around a place and an interest · expression

Select a subject or activity that you enjoy or want to explore.

Tone and use: Practical and open-ended. Use it when describing the freedom to select from different topics or activities.

May not fit: Check the event details to make sure the group is active and suitable for you.

Example“You can choose any interest, from cooking to hiking.”

a group meeting

Searching for a meetup around a place and an interest · expression

An organized gathering of people who share an interest or purpose.

Tone and use: Neutral. Use it for a planned group event, often organized around an activity.

May not fit: The phrase can also mean a meeting inside an organization; context clarifies which meaning applies.

Example“I found a group meeting for people who practise French.”

sounded interesting

Searching for a meetup around a place and an interest · expression

Seemed appealing or worth learning more about based on the information available.

Tone and use: Casual and measured. Use it to describe an idea or event that caught your attention.

May not fit: It describes your impression, not a confirmed judgment that the event will be good.

Example“The walking tour sounded interesting, so I read the event details.”

particularly interesting

New York example: activity-based events and historical listing details · expression

Especially appealing or worth paying attention to.

Tone and use: Neutral and positive. Use it to single out one thing that caught your attention among several options.

May not fit: If you mean only that you noticed something, “particularly interesting” may overstate your reaction.

Example“One of the local events looked particularly interesting to me.”

showed up each time

New York example: activity-based events and historical listing details · expression

Arrived or attended on each occasion.

Tone and use: Informal and common. Use “show up” for arriving at a place or event; “each time” emphasizes repeated occasions.

May not fit: It is less formal than “attended” in professional writing.

Example“About twenty people showed up each time the club met.”

a wide variety of topics

New York example: activity-based events and historical listing details · expression

A broad range of different subjects or activities.

Tone and use: Neutral and descriptive. Use it to emphasize diversity among choices, interests, or subjects.

May not fit: Use “a variety of” rather than “a wide variety of” if you do not want to emphasize breadth.

Example“The community center offers a wide variety of topics and classes.”

a chance of meeting 30 to 50 local people

London example: meet people through a shared activity · expression

An opportunity to meet an estimated number of local attendees; the number is specific to the historical example in the video.

Tone and use: Informational and encouraging. Use “a chance of…” to describe a possibility or opportunity, not a certainty.

May not fit: Do not treat the old attendance figure as a current promise or guarantee.

Example“The open house gives you a chance of meeting people with similar interests.”

interested in a similar activity

London example: meet people through a shared activity · expression

Interested in doing the same kind of activity as another person.

Tone and use: Neutral and descriptive. Use it to explain why people with a shared hobby may connect.

May not fit: Use “the same activity” only when the activity is exactly identical; “similar” allows differences.

Example“We joined a group of people interested in a similar activity.”

a wide variety of events

London example: meet people through a shared activity · expression

Many different kinds of organized activities or gatherings.

Tone and use: Neutral and descriptive. Use it to describe a broad selection of events.

May not fit: If there are only a few options, “several events” is more accurate.

Example“The festival offers a wide variety of events for visitors.”

language exchange meetups

Relating meetup attendance to your own interests and travel plans · expression

Group gatherings where people practise languages, often by helping one another learn.

Tone and use: Neutral and descriptive. Use it for organized events focused on practising or exchanging languages.

May not fit: The language partners and format can vary, so check how a specific event is organized.

Example“I joined language exchange meetups to practise speaking French.”

plan your trip abroad

Relating meetup attendance to your own interests and travel plans · expression

Make arrangements for a trip to another country.

Tone and use: Neutral and practical. Use “abroad” when referring generally to another country or countries.

May not fit: For a specific destination, naming the country is clearer.

Example“I plan my trip abroad by checking transport and local events.”

different local events

Relating meetup attendance to your own interests and travel plans · expression

A range of events happening in a particular area.

Tone and use: Casual and practical. Use it when suggesting that someone explore multiple local activities or gatherings.

May not fit: Verify that event details are current before making plans.

Example“We’re checking out different local events for Saturday.”

it does take a lot of courage

Acknowledging the courage involved and inviting comments · expression

It genuinely requires bravery or confidence; “does” emphasizes the statement.

Tone and use: Empathetic and affirming. Use “does” for emphasis when confirming or stressing a point.

May not fit: In neutral statements, the auxiliary “does” may be unnecessary.

Example“It does take a lot of courage to speak in front of a new group.”

you won’t regret it

Acknowledging the courage involved and inviting comments · expression

An encouraging prediction that you will be glad you tried something.

Tone and use: Reassuring and confident, though not a literal guarantee. Use it to encourage someone to try an experience you expect they will value.

May not fit: Avoid promising an outcome you cannot know; soften it with “I think” if appropriate.

Example“It might feel awkward at first, but you won’t regret giving it a try.”

let me know in the comments below

Acknowledging the courage involved and inviting comments · expression

An informal invitation for viewers to respond in the comment section beneath the video.

Tone and use: Friendly and audience-facing. Use it when asking an online audience to share an answer or experience.

May not fit: In person or in a private message, simply say “let me know” and give another way to respond.

Example“Let me know in the comments below which activity you’d choose.”

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What it means · “walk up to a stranger”

Why does Vanessa say it may be difficult to simply walk up to a stranger?