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How to be a Fluent English Speaker: Don't Do These 7 Things

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Vanessa shares habits that may make it harder to become a confident English speaker and suggests more useful alternatives. The title is intentionally direct, but the lesson is not a judgment of learners. It encourages practical choices: spend time on material that is useful to you, practise communication, and pay attention to pronunciation and comprehension rather than pursuing perfection.

The opening phrase “waste your time” means spend time on something that does not help you reach your goal. Vanessa uses it to ask learners to consider how they use study time. This is a judgment about usefulness, not a statement that every activity must be productive. Rest, entertainment, and enjoyable content can also support learning when they keep practice sustainable.

The lesson includes examples of listening and pronunciation, including a conversation with another speaker. Vanessa points out that a phrase such as “It looks like it needs to be washed” can help learners hear natural speech in context. “It looks like” introduces an observation or a tentative conclusion based on what the speaker sees. It is softer than claiming certainty. The video also encourages learners not to underrate pronunciation. To “underrate” something is to consider it less important or less valuable than it really is.

Learning habits are individual. Watching a long, complex show may be motivating for one learner and frustrating for another. A shorter clip with useful vocabulary can be a better fit. Likewise, repeating a phrase is helpful when the learner understands its meaning and context. The best routine is one a learner can maintain and adjust as their needs change.

To put the advice into practice, choose one everyday listening source and one short speaking task. After listening, summarize the main idea, select a phrase worth keeping, and say it in a new sentence. If your goal is pronunciation, focus on one sound or rhythm point instead of trying to change everything at once. Review your progress after a week. Small, consistent actions are more useful than expecting instant fluency or treating mistakes as evidence that you cannot improve.

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Introduces habits that can slow speaking progress.

Vanessa Hi I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa com You don't want to right Let's talk about it Today I have a special treat for you I'm going to help you learn seven things that you should avoid if you want to be a fluent English speaker Don't do these seven things if you want to be fluent If you focus on these seven things you're going to be wasting your time It's not going to be efficient Instead you're just going to be wasting your time So to talk about these seven things I thought Who can help

Try it: Think of one habit that makes speaking harder for you. Replace it with a small action you can practise this week, and describe your plan aloud.

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waste your time

Introduces habits that can slow speaking progress. · expression

Spend time on something that does not provide useful value for your goal.

Tone and use: Common expression. Use it when discussing an activity that is not a good use of time.

May not fit: It can sound critical; use it thoughtfully.

Example“I do not want to waste your time with a long explanation.”

so long and so complex

Discusses language exposure and practice choices. · expression

Very lengthy and complicated.

Tone and use: Descriptive phrase. Use it when explaining why a task or source feels difficult.

May not fit: It describes a particular example, not every long resource.

Example“The instructions were so long and so complex that I took notes.”

pay taxes

Uses real conversation examples and corrections. · expression

Make required payments to the government.

Tone and use: Common civic phrase. Use it when discussing income, public services, or legal obligations.

May not fit: Tax rules vary by place; the phrase itself is not tax advice.

Example“Workers pay taxes according to local rules.”

It looks like

Uses real conversation examples and corrections. · expression

Introduces an observation or a tentative conclusion.

Tone and use: Common conversational opener. Use it when something appears to be true based on what you see.

May not fit: It signals an impression, not always certainty.

Example“It looks like the package needs a new label.”

underrate the power of

Explains helpful habits for clearer communication. · expression

Fail to recognize how valuable or effective something can be.

Tone and use: Emphatic expression. Use it when reminding someone not to dismiss an important factor.

May not fit: Use “underrate” for value or importance, not physical power alone.

Example“Do not underrate the power of regular practice.”

the power of pronunciation

Explains helpful habits for clearer communication. · expression

The influence pronunciation can have on how clearly speech is understood.

Tone and use: Explanatory phrase. Use it when discussing pronunciation’s role in communication.

May not fit: Pronunciation supports understanding; accent differences are not automatically errors.

Example“The power of pronunciation is clear when a sound changes a word.”

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What it means · “waste your time”

If a study activity wastes your time, what does that suggest?