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How Are You: Back to English Basics Series

Choose natural follow-up greetings—from “How’s it going?” and “What’s up?” to “What are you up to today?”—and match your reply to the question.

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Vanessa presents four follow-up greetings that can come after “hello”: “How’s it going?”, “How are you doing?”, “What’s up?”, and “What are you up to today?” She explains that some greetings function as routine small talk rather than requests for a detailed personal update. A brief answer such as “Pretty good,” “Not too bad,” or “Not much” may be enough, depending on the greeting and situation.

She begins with “How are you?” and says it can feel more formal in the casual interactions she has in mind, such as talking with friends, neighbors, or family. Register varies across people, regions, and relationships, though, and “How are you?” is also a common everyday greeting in many English-speaking contexts. Learners should notice how people around them use it rather than assume a fixed formality ranking.

“How’s it going?” is a common casual alternative. Vanessa models a short response and notes that the final G in an -ing word is often reduced or dropped in casual speech. “How are you doing?” may similarly be shortened to “How you doing?” in familiar conversation. “What’s up?” can stand alone or follow “Hey.” Depending on context, “Not much” is a natural reply, and a simple “Hey” can also work; the greeter may not expect a full report.

“What are you up to today?” is different because it more directly invites a small detail about someone’s plans. Vanessa gives examples such as going to work or visiting a family member. The reply can still be brief. The key is to distinguish a conventional greeting from a question that invites more information, while considering whether the relationship and setting feel comfortable.

To practise, choose one greeting you would naturally use. Try a short response to “How’s it going?” and a little more information for “What are you up to today?” These are flexible options, not rules; the right wording depends on the person, setting, and local usage.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:00

Introducing follow-up greetings as routine small talk

Hi, I'm Vanessa from Speak English with Vanessa.com. How's it going? Let's talk about it. Welcome to the second lesson in the Back to English Basics series. We're going back to the basics to build a stronger foundation. Today, let's move to the next part of a greeting: a . It's often a routine question, and it doesn't always ask for a detailed answer. Let's look at some examples. The first expression is ‘How are you?’

Try it: Choose a follow-up greeting that feels comfortable. Practise a brief reply to “How’s it going?” and a slightly more detailed reply to “What are you up to today?”

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follow-up greeting

Introducing follow-up greetings as routine small talk · expression

A greeting or question used after an initial hello to continue a social exchange.

Tone and use: Neutral and instructional. Use it when describing a second greeting such as “How’s it going?”

May not fit: A follow-up question may be routine small talk, not a request for private details.

Example“After “Hi,” she added a follow-up greeting.”

more formal

Explaining how “How are you?” may sound in Vanessa’s examples · expression

More associated with polite or less casual situations.

Tone and use: Comparative register description. Use it to compare how expressions may sound in a particular context.

May not fit: Formality varies by region, relationship, and tone; Vanessa’s ranking is not universal.

Example““Good morning” can sound more formal than “Hey.””

How’s it going?

Comparing casual alternatives and reduced pronunciation · expression

A common casual greeting asking generally how things are.

Tone and use: Friendly and conversational. Use it with acquaintances, colleagues, or friends when casual small talk fits.

May not fit: A short greeting reply is common; it may not invite a detailed update.

Example“Hey, how’s it going?”

not too bad

Comparing casual alternatives and reduced pronunciation · expression

Fairly good or acceptable; a modestly positive response.

Tone and use: Casual and understated. Use it to answer a general check-in when you are doing reasonably well.

May not fit: It can sound less enthusiastic than “great.”

Example““How are you?” “Not too bad, thanks.””

How you doing?

Using “What’s up?” and short conventional replies · expression

A casual reduced form of “How are you doing?”

Tone and use: Informal and familiar. Use it in relaxed conversation where this pronunciation is natural.

May not fit: In more formal situations, use the full form “How are you doing?”

Example“Hey, how you doing?”

What’s up?

Introducing a question that invites a little more information · expression

A casual greeting that can mean “Hello” or ask generally what is happening.

Tone and use: Informal and friendly. Use it with people and in settings where casual language is appropriate.

May not fit: It may be too informal in a formal meeting or with someone you do not know well.

Example“Hey, what’s up?”

not much

Introducing a question that invites a little more information · expression

A brief reply meaning nothing special is happening.

Tone and use: Very casual and common. Use it as a short response to “What’s up?”

May not fit: It may not answer a direct question asking for specific plans.

Example““Hey, what’s up?” “Not much—how about you?””

What are you up to today?

Answering “What are you up to today?” with a brief detail · expression

A casual question asking what someone plans to do today.

Tone and use: Friendly and conversational. Use it when you want a small update about someone’s plans.

May not fit: Ask only when the relationship and context make a personal question welcome.

Example“What are you up to today after work?”

a little detail

Answering “What are you up to today?” with a brief detail · expression

A small amount of specific information.

Tone and use: Neutral and conversational. Use it when asking for a brief example or bit of information.

May not fit: Share only what you are comfortable disclosing.

Example“Could you give me a little detail about your plans?”

feels most comfortable to you

Choosing a comfortable greeting and practising it in comments · expression

Seems easiest or most natural for you personally.

Tone and use: Supportive and learner-centered. Use it when choosing language based on personal preference and context.

May not fit: Comfort can change with the listener and setting.

Example“Which greeting feels most comfortable to you?”

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What it means · “follow-up greeting”

What is a follow-up greeting in this lesson?