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Advanced English Vocabulary [The Fearless Fluency Club]

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Vanessa and her guest explore advanced English vocabulary through conversation, stories, and examples from ordinary life. Rather than presenting a list of definitions, they pause to explain how an expression sounds and when a speaker might use it. This conversational format helps learners hear the rhythm, tone, and context that accompany advanced phrases. Some expressions describe reactions, while others help people compare viewpoints or work through a disagreement.

“All of a sudden” means that something happens unexpectedly or quickly, without much warning. “On the other hand” introduces a contrasting point of view. Both are useful connectors: one helps organize a story, and the other helps present a comparison. The speakers also discuss “hash something out,” an informal expression for talking through details or disagreements until people reach an understanding. It can be useful in a conversation, but its tone may be too casual for a formal report.

The lesson includes expressions for managing everyday situations. “Not a big deal” can reassure someone that a problem is minor, while “make you feel comfortable” describes helping someone feel at ease. These expressions depend on context and tone. Saying “it’s not a big deal” may be comforting when the issue is small, but it can sound dismissive if someone is upset about something important. Listening to the whole interaction helps learners judge whether a phrase is supportive or minimizing.

For practice, choose one expression and build a short situation around it. You might explain what happened all of a sudden, compare two options using “on the other hand,” or describe how to hash out a plan with a friend. Use your own details rather than copying the speakers’ stories. Pay attention to whether the expression is informal, and choose a more neutral alternative when needed. The main benefit of this lesson is learning vocabulary as part of real interaction: meaning, tone, and relationship all matter. Revisit the phrases and create a new example each time to strengthen flexible use.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:00

Introduces advanced vocabulary and stories from everyday life.

Vanessa Hi I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa com Welcome to the sample vocabulary video for the course the Fearless Fluency Club In this video you're going to learn vocabulary words that were used in the sample conversation lesson between my sister and I In this video you'll see me with my husband Dan giving examples for each word And then you're going to see a clip from that conversation video So you're going to be able to hear our explanations and see it in real life If you'd like to get lessons that's like this every month you can join the Fearless Fluency

Try it: Choose one expression that fits a disagreement and one that describes an unexpected event. Make original examples and decide how casual each sounds.

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6 phrases

all of a sudden

Introduces advanced vocabulary and stories from everyday life. · expression

Unexpectedly or very quickly, without warning.

Tone and use: Common conversational expression. Use it when describing a sudden or surprising change.

May not fit: It emphasizes surprise; use a more precise time description when timing matters.

Example“All of a sudden, the lights went out.”

hash something out

Explains expressions through conversation and examples. · expression

Discuss details or disagreements until a plan or understanding is reached.

Tone and use: Informal and conversational. Use it when people need to work through a topic together.

May not fit: It can sound too casual in formal writing.

Example“We need to hash out the travel plans before booking.”

feel comfortable speaking

Explains expressions through conversation and examples. · expression

Feel at ease when talking.

Tone and use: Common learning and social phrase. Use it to describe confidence in a conversation or language.

May not fit: Comfort can vary by topic and situation.

Example“I feel comfortable speaking English with this group.”

on the other hand

Contrasts viewpoints and discusses relationships. · expression

Used to introduce a contrasting point or alternative.

Tone and use: Neutral and common. Use it to compare another side of an issue.

May not fit: Pair it with a clear first point so the contrast is understandable.

Example“The apartment is small; on the other hand, it’s close to work.”

not a big deal

Practises useful expressions for reactions and everyday situations. · expression

Not very important or serious.

Tone and use: Informal and reassuring. Use it to say that a small problem is manageable.

May not fit: It may sound dismissive if the other person sees the issue as serious.

Example“Being five minutes late is not a big deal.”

make you feel comfortable

Reviews vocabulary and conversational fluency strategies. · expression

Help you feel relaxed, welcome, or at ease.

Tone and use: Common supportive phrase. Use it to describe an action or environment that reduces discomfort.

May not fit: Comfort is personal; ask what someone prefers rather than assuming.

Example“A friendly greeting can make new students feel comfortable.”

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What it means · “all of a sudden”

If all of a sudden the lights go out, when does it happen?