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5 Speaking Mistakes to AVOID in English

Avoid these common speaking mistakes in English and speak fluent English.

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Vanessa reviews common speaking mistakes that arise when learners use similar words with different grammar patterns. The lesson focuses on “remember” and “remind,” “tell” and “say,” and “there is” versus “there are.” Instead of asking learners to memorize a long list of rules, she gives short questions and sample sentences that reveal what follows each verb.

“Remember” can stand alone before information, as in “Do you remember when the project is due?” “Remind” usually takes an object pronoun, as in “Remind me about the meeting.” This difference helps learners build the sentence correctly. The distinction between “tell” and “say” is also shown with examples: “What did he tell me?” and “What did he say to me?” When a person is named after “say,” the preposition “to” is often needed.

The lesson also discusses a conversational pattern such as “there’s three birds” alongside the more standard “there are three birds.” Vanessa notes that speakers may use the singular form informally in spontaneous speech, while learners should use the standard form in exams or formal writing. Understanding a common conversational pattern does not mean it is appropriate for every situation.

For practice, choose a reminder, piece of information, or description of a place and make a sentence with the correct structure. Ask yourself whether “remind” needs an object, whether “say” needs “to” before a person, and whether the subject is singular or plural. Then read your examples aloud. This lesson is useful for self-correction because it connects grammar to complete, memorable expressions. The goal is not to judge informal speakers but to give learners control over the form that fits their audience and purpose. When you notice a recurring mistake, write one correct example and review it later. A short, repeated review can make the correct pattern easier to retrieve during conversation.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:00

Introduces common speaking mistakes and learning encouragement.

Hi I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa com Do you make these five common speaking mistakes Let's talk about it Learning English is hard There's so much to remember But if you remind yourself that as long as you're practicing you are learning you're going in the right direction Before we get started I have a little disclaimer making mistakes is a completely normal part of learning anything new It could be a language It could be any other skill I want you to overall be nice to yourself When you make a mistake if you can't remember a word

Try it: Choose a reminder you need this week. Say it once with remember and once with remind, checking the sentence pattern.

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remind me

Contrasts remember and remind. · expression

Help me remember something by telling or prompting me.

Tone and use: Common request. Use it when asking another person to help you remember an event or task.

May not fit: “Remind” is usually followed by the person being reminded.

Example“Please remind me to call the dentist tomorrow.”

remember when the project is due

Practises tell and say with pronouns. · expression

Recall the date or time by which the project must be finished.

Tone and use: Common question pattern. Use “remember” when checking whether information is already in someone’s memory.

May not fit: “Remember” does not require an object pronoun before the information clause.

Example“Do you remember when the project is due?”

what did he tell me

Practises tell and say with pronouns. · expression

Ask about information someone communicated directly to the speaker.

Tone and use: Common past-tense question. Use “tell” with a person as its object.

May not fit: Do not add “to” between “tell” and the person.

Example“What did he tell me about the schedule?”

what did he say to me

Practises tell and say with pronouns. · expression

Ask about the words someone spoke to the speaker.

Tone and use: Common past-tense question. Use “say to” when specifying the listener.

May not fit: Do not omit “to” before the person in this pattern.

Example“What did he say to me after the meeting?”

there are three birds

Reviews the mistakes and gives a final challenge. · expression

A standard plural construction saying that three birds are present.

Tone and use: Standard and grammatically appropriate. Use “there are” before a plural noun in formal and careful speech.

May not fit: In casual speech you may hear “there’s” with a plural, but use the standard form in formal contexts.

Example“There are three birds outside my window.”

in the morning

Reviews the mistakes and gives a final challenge. · expression

During the early part of the day.

Tone and use: Common time expression. Use it for a general time of day.

May not fit: Use “at” with an exact clock time.

Example“I’ll remind you in the morning.”

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Use it in a sentence · “remind me”

You want a friend to help you remember an appointment. What can you ask?