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5 Speaking Mistakes to AVOID in English

Avoid these common speaking mistakes in English and speak fluent English.

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Vanessa reviews common English-speaking mistakes and explains why a small grammatical choice can change what a sentence means or how it sounds. She begins with the contrast between describing someone as “boring” and saying that the person “feels bored.” The first describes the person or thing as uninteresting; the second describes someone’s feeling. Calling a person boring can sound rude, so this distinction matters both grammatically and socially.

The lesson encourages learners not to feel embarrassed when they make mistakes. Mistakes are a normal part of learning, and the goal is to notice patterns and improve. Vanessa demonstrates how a speaker can avoid a misunderstanding by choosing the correct form and by checking whether an adjective describes a cause or a feeling. She also asks learners to make a mistake on purpose in one exercise, which means intentionally producing an incorrect form so they can recognize and correct it. That instruction belongs to the practice activity; in real communication, the purpose is to become clearer, not to mislead someone.

Several practical chunks help learners discuss classroom experiences. “I need a good grade” expresses a desired result in school. “Take a look” invites someone to examine an example. Both are common phrases, but the main instructional value is in the grammar contrasts that follow. Learners should pause at each example and predict the correction before Vanessa gives it. Then repeat the corrected version and notice which part changed.

The lesson’s advice is not that every mistake makes a speaker unintelligible. Rather, selecting the correct word form can prevent unintended meanings, particularly when describing another person. If you are unsure, choose a neutral description or ask a clarifying question. For example, “I feel bored” talks about your own feeling without labeling another person as uninteresting. Use “That movie was boring” to describe the movie’s effect on you.

To practise, make two sentences about the same experience: one describing the cause and another describing your feeling. Then identify the grammatical clue. Keep the practice supportive; correcting yourself is useful, while mocking someone else’s mistakes is not. Vanessa’s examples are a starting point for noticing common patterns in real conversations, not a reason to expect perfect speech from yourself or other learners.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:00

Introduces common speaking errors and the bored/boring contrast.

Oh man you look so boring Oh no Please do not say this in English This is extremely rude Hi I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishwithVanessa com Today I want to help you avoid these five common speaking mistakes Yes mistakes are an essential part of learning anything new and you shouldn't be sometimes but is avoiding common mistakes and that's what I'd like to help you with today I've created for you a free PDF worksheet with all five of these common speaking mistakes what the mistakes are and how to avoid

Try it: Choose a contrast from the lesson and complete a sentence about your own experience. Pay attention to whether you describe a feeling or the thing causing it.

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embarrassed that you make mistakes

Introduces common speaking errors and the bored/boring contrast. · expression

Feeling self-conscious because errors happen.

Tone and use: Reassuring conversational phrase. Use it to acknowledge a learner’s concern about making errors.

May not fit: Do not use it to shame someone; the lesson uses it to normalize learning.

Example“Don’t be embarrassed that you make mistakes while practising.”

part of getting better

Introduces common speaking errors and the bored/boring contrast. · expression

One element of improving a skill.

Tone and use: Encouraging, conversational phrase. Use it to explain that a process includes a particular experience.

May not fit: It does not mean every error is harmless; learn from recurring ones.

Example“Making small errors is part of getting better at speaking.”

boring versus bored

Introduces common speaking errors and the bored/boring contrast. · expression

“Boring” describes something that causes little interest; “bored” describes the person’s feeling.

Tone and use: Important adjective contrast; neutral explanation. Use “boring” for the cause and “bored” for the person experiencing the feeling.

May not fit: Calling a person boring can sound insulting; focus on the activity or your own feeling.

Example“The lecture was boring, so I felt bored halfway through.”

a good grade

Explains additional grammar and word-choice mistakes. · expression

A high or satisfactory mark on schoolwork or an exam.

Tone and use: Common education phrase. Use it when describing a desired academic result.

May not fit: Grading systems differ; the phrase does not specify a particular score.

Example“She studied every evening because she wanted a good grade.”

make a mistake on purpose

Explains additional grammar and word-choice mistakes. · expression

Intentionally do something incorrectly as part of an exercise.

Tone and use: Instructional phrase. Use it for a deliberate practice activity where learners identify an error.

May not fit: This is for practice, not an excuse to mislead people in real communication.

Example“The teacher asked us to make a mistake on purpose and then correct it.”

take a look

Shows examples and contrasts similar sentence forms. · expression

Briefly examine or inspect something.

Tone and use: Common conversational invitation. Use it to direct someone’s attention to an example or item.

May not fit: For formal instructions, “review” may be more appropriate.

Example“Take a look at my answer and tell me if it is clear.”

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What it means · “boring versus bored”

A film is not interesting, and you feel uninterested. Which pair fits?