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5 Speaking Mistakes to AVOID in English

Avoid these common speaking mistakes in English and speak fluent English.

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This lesson compares expressions that are easy to confuse in everyday English, with examples involving polite requests, damaged objects, and apologies. Vanessa first explores “Would you mind…?” as a very polite way to ask someone to do something. The response can be confusing because a literal “yes” may sound like agreement that the request is a problem. The lesson demonstrates how to answer clearly, for example by saying “No, it’s not a problem” when you are happy to help.

The video then contrasts “torn” and “broken.” “Torn” usually describes a rip in soft material such as clothing or paper. “Broken” is more often used for hard objects or things that no longer work, such as a glass, phone, or toy. These words are related to damage, but choosing the precise one makes a description clearer. The lesson uses a shirt and a toy to show the difference.

Vanessa also contrasts “mistake” and “fault.” “I made a mistake” describes an error someone made. “It’s my fault” takes a possessive word before “fault” and accepts responsibility or blame. The phrases may appear together in an apology: “I made a mistake; it’s my fault.” The choice can affect how direct or accountable the speaker sounds.

For practice, imagine asking someone to carry a heavy box, describing a damaged shirt, or apologizing for mixing up laundry. Use “Would you mind helping me?” for a polite request. Choose “torn” for fabric and “broken” for a hard object that is damaged. Then use “I made a mistake” or “It was my fault” when appropriate. The lesson’s quiz-style examples make it easy to pause, choose a phrase, and check the explanation. The goal is to communicate politely and accurately without confusing similar words. Notice that the response to “Would you mind?” depends on whether you mind doing the action. Practising the question and answer together makes the exchange easier to follow.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:00

Introduces polite requests and speaking examples.

Hi I'm Vanessa from SpeakEnglishWithVanessa com Do you make these five common speaking mistakes Let's talk about it Learning English is hard There are so many mistakes that you can make but do you know what As long as you are practicing you are progressing Before we start I have a little disclaimer When you are learning anything new English or any other skill it's totally normal to make a lot of mistakes This is extremely common and you shouldn't be

Try it: Choose a small everyday problem. Make a polite request, then apologize naturally if you caused the problem.

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6 phrases

would you mind helping me

Explains would you mind and responses. · expression

A very polite way to ask someone whether they are willing to help.

Tone and use: Very polite request. Use it when asking for help, especially with someone you do not know well.

May not fit: The listener may respond “No, not at all” to mean it is no problem.

Example“Would you mind helping me carry this box?”

this shirt is torn

Contrasts torn and broken. · expression

The shirt has a rip or split in its fabric.

Tone and use: Common descriptive phrase. Use “torn” for damage to cloth, paper, or another flexible material.

May not fit: Use “broken” for a hard object that is damaged or not working.

Example“This shirt is torn near the sleeve.”

you can break your phone

Contrasts torn and broken. · expression

A phone can become damaged, for example if it is dropped.

Tone and use: Common warning phrase. Use it when explaining how a device can be damaged.

May not fit: Use “torn” for a rip in fabric or paper.

Example“Be careful with the tablet; you can break your phone if you drop it.”

I made a mistake

Explains mistake and fault. · expression

I did something incorrectly or made an error.

Tone and use: Common and neutral apology phrase. Use it when acknowledging an error you made.

May not fit: It names an error but does not by itself explain how you will fix it.

Example“I made a mistake when I washed the white shirt.”

that’s my fault

Explains mistake and fault. · expression

I am responsible for the problem or mistake.

Tone and use: Direct and accountable. Use it when accepting responsibility.

May not fit: Do not blame yourself for something outside your control.

Example“That’s my fault; I forgot to send the message.”

I’m trying to listen to the lecture

Practises the expressions and reviews the lesson. · expression

I am making an effort to pay attention to the lecture.

Tone and use: Common present-progressive phrase. Use it to explain that you are attempting to focus.

May not fit: It may sound confrontational; make a polite request when possible.

Example“I’m trying to listen to the lecture, so could you lower the music?”

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Use it in a sentence · “would you mind helping me”

You need help carrying a box and want to sound very polite. What can you ask?