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5 Speaking Mistakes to AVOID in English

Avoid these common speaking mistakes in English and speak fluent English.

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Vanessa discusses common speaking mistakes and helps learners approach conversation with more confidence. The lesson emphasizes that communication does not require perfect grammar or vocabulary in every sentence. Speakers can still share ideas and build understanding while continuing to learn. The goal is to make meaning clear, not to avoid speaking until every word feels perfect.

One useful idea is to help the listener feel comfortable by speaking clearly and choosing language that fits the situation. Vanessa notes that a conversation can become stressful when a speaker tries to fill every moment with words. A “blank space” or pause is not automatically a mistake; it can give both people time to think. A short silence can be natural, especially when someone is organizing an idea or responding to a question.

The lesson also recommends speaking up and using an appropriate “office voice” during a presentation. “Speak up” means use a voice loud enough for people to hear, while “office voice” describes a clear, professional volume and manner. It does not mean shouting. The right volume depends on room size, distance, and background noise. Vanessa encourages learners to check that the audience can hear them and to enunciate clearly.

For practice, choose a short message you want to share. Say it at a comfortable pace, pause when you need to think, and speak loudly enough for the listener to hear. If you make a grammar mistake, clarify your meaning and continue rather than stopping completely. In a formal presentation, preparation can help reduce stress; in a casual conversation, a natural pause is usually fine. The lesson encourages flexibility and confidence, not a rigid list of rules. Learners should consider their audience and adapt their speaking style while staying focused on clear communication. The right choice can change depending on the listener and the setting.

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Select an expression for its meaning · 0:00

Introduces common speaking concerns and confidence.

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Try it: Choose one speaking situation that makes you nervous. Make a short plan for how to speak clearly and allow yourself a pause.

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feel comfortable speaking in English

Discusses grammar and vocabulary confidence. · expression

Feel at ease talking in English.

Tone and use: Common and encouraging. Use it to describe confidence in using English aloud.

May not fit: Comfort can develop gradually; it does not require perfect grammar.

Example“I feel more comfortable speaking in English after joining the group.”

feel comfortable speaking with you

Practises asking questions and managing pauses. · expression

Feel at ease having a conversation with you.

Tone and use: Friendly and conversational. Use it to describe a welcoming interaction.

May not fit: The phrase describes one person’s feeling; do not assume everyone feels the same.

Example“Your questions make me feel comfortable speaking with you.”

a little bit stressful

Explains silence and conversation flow. · expression

Somewhat stressful or tense.

Tone and use: Informal and softened. Use it to describe mild stress about an activity.

May not fit: “A little bit” softens the intensity; explain more if the stress is serious.

Example“It can feel a little bit stressful to speak in front of a large group.”

blank space

Explains silence and conversation flow. · expression

An empty interval or pause with nothing being said or written.

Tone and use: Neutral phrase. Use it for a moment of silence or an empty area, depending on context.

May not fit: A pause is not necessarily a mistake or failure.

Example“It’s okay to leave a blank space while you think of the next word.”

make sure that I speak up

Reviews speaking clearly and adapting to the audience. · expression

Check that I use enough volume to be heard.

Tone and use: Common presentation phrase. Use it when planning to speak audibly to a group.

May not fit: Speaking up means be audible, not shout.

Example“I’ll make sure that I speak up during the presentation.”

good office voice

Reviews speaking clearly and adapting to the audience. · expression

A clear, appropriately professional speaking volume and manner.

Tone and use: Informal workplace phrase. Use it when discussing how to speak clearly at work.

May not fit: It is not a formal technical term; adapt volume to the setting.

Example“Use a good office voice so everyone in the meeting can hear you.”

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