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3 Ways to Order in a Restaurant: Speak English Fluently

Practise four polite, natural ways to order food in an English-speaking restaurant.

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Vanessa teaches four polite ways to order food in a restaurant: “I’d like,” “I’m going to have” or “I’ll have,” “I’ll take,” and the bonus expression “I’m going to go with.” The examples use common menu items such as cheesecake, a hamburger, salad, pasta, fries, and sushi. Her focus is practical spoken English: learners can choose a phrase that feels natural, speak clearly, and use a polite tone.

“I’d like” is a standard, courteous way to state what you want: “I’d like the cheesecake, please.” Vanessa reassures learners that this expression, although often taught in elementary classes, is genuinely used. “I’m going to have” and its shorter form “I’ll have” are also polite choices. When ordering from a menu, speakers often use “the” before an item: “I’ll have the hamburger.” You can add details about how it is served, as in “the chocolate ice cream covered in sprinkles with whipped cream on top.”

The verb “take” can also introduce an order: “I’ll take the French fries” or “I’ll take the salad.” Although the restaurant brings the food to you, take is a natural way to choose an item. “I’ll take” can sometimes replace “I’ll have.” Vanessa’s bonus phrase is “I’m going to go with,” which means that this is your choice: “I’m going to go with the grilled chicken.” It is a little more casual, but still polite and appropriate in many restaurants.

To practise, imagine you are ordering at a restaurant. Choose one phrase, name your dish, and add a polite detail or “please.” You can also practise by writing an order in the comments and repeating it aloud. Repetition helps make these sentence patterns easier to use in a real interaction. Vanessa encourages learners to keep their order simple and courteous; the phrases are flexible alternatives, not a strict ranking from most to least polite.

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Vanessa introduces four restaurant-ordering expressions and explains that “I’d like” is natural and polite

Hi, I’m Vanessa from Speak English with Vanessa.com. What should you say when in English? Today I’ll share three expressions and one bonus expression. They are all polite, so they work in casual or formal restaurants, as long as your face and voice are polite. The first is “,” a short form of “I would like.” You may have learned it in elementary English classes, and it is natural: “I’d like the cheesecake, please,” “I’d like a hamburger,” or “I’d like some pasta.”

Try it: Choose a restaurant dish and order it using I’d like, with a polite tone.

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ordering food in a restaurant

Vanessa introduces four restaurant-ordering expressions and explains that “I’d like” is natural and polite · expression

Choosing and asking for food at a restaurant.

Tone and use: Neutral and practical. Use order food when asking a server for dishes or drinks.

May not fit: Order can also mean request goods or give instructions; context makes the meaning clear.

Example“I’m ordering food in a restaurant for the first time in English.”

I’d like

Vanessa introduces four restaurant-ordering expressions and explains that “I’d like” is natural and polite · expression

A polite way to say what you want or would like to order.

Tone and use: Courteous and standard. Use I’d like + a noun or to + verb; in a restaurant, follow it with the item.

May not fit: It is not limited to formal situations; it is also natural in everyday restaurants.

Example“I’d like the vegetable soup, please.”

perfectly fine

Vanessa introduces four restaurant-ordering expressions and explains that “I’d like” is natural and polite · expression

Completely acceptable or suitable.

Tone and use: Reassuring and conversational. Use it to reassure someone that a choice or action is acceptable.

May not fit: It means acceptable, not necessarily the best or most exciting option.

Example“It’s perfectly fine to ask the server for a recommendation.”

I’m going to have

She demonstrates “I’m going to have” and “I’ll have,” including how to name menu items and toppings · expression

A natural way to say which item you plan to order.

Tone and use: Polite and conversational. Use I’m going to have + the dish when placing an order.

May not fit: Here it means choosing food, not physically possessing it.

Example“I’m going to have the soup and a side salad.”

I’ll have

She demonstrates “I’m going to have” and “I’ll have,” including how to name menu items and toppings · expression

A concise, polite way to state your order.

Tone and use: Natural and courteous. Use I’ll have + the menu item when choosing what to order.

May not fit: Use a clear dish name so the server knows what you want.

Example“I’ll have the grilled chicken, please.”

with whipped cream on top

She demonstrates “I’m going to have” and “I’ll have,” including how to name menu items and toppings · expression

Topped with whipped cream; the cream is placed above the other food.

Tone and use: Descriptive and practical. Use with + topping + on top to describe how a dish is served.

May not fit: Use this only when the topping is actually placed on top.

Example“I’d like a hot chocolate with whipped cream on top.”

I’ll take

The verb “take” offers another natural way to choose food, including a salad or fruit · expression

A common way to choose or order a particular item.

Tone and use: Polite and conversational. Use I’ll take + item to state your choice at a restaurant or shop.

May not fit: In this restaurant context, take means choose; the staff still bring the food.

Example“I’ll take the soup and a glass of water.”

instead of

The verb “take” offers another natural way to choose food, including a salad or fruit · expression

In place of another choice or option.

Tone and use: Neutral and common. Use instead of + noun or gerund to show a replacement.

May not fit: Follow it with a noun or -ing form, not a bare verb.

Example“I’ll have tea instead of coffee.”

even though

The verb “take” offers another natural way to choose food, including a salad or fruit · expression

Despite the fact that; introduces a contrast.

Tone and use: Neutral and conversational. Use even though + a clause to show that the result is surprising or contrasts with the fact.

May not fit: Do not use even though and but together to express the same contrast in one clause.

Example“Even though I was full, I ordered dessert.”

I’m going to go with

The bonus expression “go with” lets a customer make a choice in a slightly more casual way · expression

A conversational way to say which option you choose.

Tone and use: Polite, slightly more casual than some alternatives. Use I’m going to go with + a choice when deciding among options.

May not fit: In this context it means choose, not physically accompany the item.

Example“I’m going to go with the grilled fish.”

a more casual way

The bonus expression “go with” lets a customer make a choice in a slightly more casual way · expression

A less formal or more relaxed manner of saying or doing something.

Tone and use: Neutral and explanatory. Use casual to describe relaxed language or behavior.

May not fit: Casual does not necessarily mean impolite; context and tone matter.

Example““I’ll go with the soup” is a more casual way to place the order.”

what you want to order

The bonus expression “go with” lets a customer make a choice in a slightly more casual way · expression

The food or drink you would like the restaurant to bring.

Tone and use: Neutral and practical. Use what + subject + want to order to describe someone’s choice.

May not fit: Use a direct phrase such as “I’d like” when speaking to the server.

Example“Take a moment to decide what you want to order.”

in the comments below

Vanessa invites learners to practise an order in the comments and encourages repetition · expression

In the online comment area beneath a post or video.

Tone and use: Friendly online instruction. Use it to invite viewers to respond under online content.

May not fit: It refers to an online space, not an in-person conversation.

Example“Write your practice order in the comments below.”

choose one or maybe all

Vanessa invites learners to practise an order in the comments and encourages repetition · expression

Select one option, or select all of the available options.

Tone and use: Friendly and informal. Use it when offering someone flexibility among a set of choices.

May not fit: For a formal instruction, specify exactly how many options are required.

Example“Choose one or maybe all of the questions to discuss.”

repetition is key

Vanessa invites learners to practise an order in the comments and encourages repetition · expression

Repeating something is very important for learning or improvement.

Tone and use: Encouraging and memorable. Use it to stress the value of repeated practice.

May not fit: It highlights practice but does not mean repetition alone guarantees mastery.

Example“When learning a new phrase, repetition is key.”

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Which sentence politely orders cheesecake?